I agree, and as such, it's really like there's no "favorite" version of TMP for me. It's a lot like Close Encounters and Blade Runner. Each version has things I like and things I don't. It's very frustrating.
I think I'd say that if I could get the improved character elements of the SLV, the new special fx and sound mix (minus the changes you mentioned) of the DE and the quality / resolution of the Theatrical BR, I'd be happy.
Yeah that would be my ultimate version of the movie.