That's all down to the angry warrior story. If someone made up a legend they claimed was from "their people" and it was obvious as all get out that it was a ruse to present themselves in a sympathetic yet potentially for the future still sexable light wouldn't you think they were a wanker? The whole story sounded like some bullshit some drunk would slur at a girl in a bar. "yeah.. I know we couldn't be together like.. you know.. but my people, we respect that ya know? We have a special word for our kind of relationship.." :: puts arm around girl as she shrinks back:: You all can fill in the word. HIDING behind "my people", cloaking your fail and rejection in philosophical mumbo jumbo, to elevate it.. well no wonder their relationship took a downward turn after that.