I felt that Spider was tolerated by most of the Sully family. I don't remember that much of a bond between Neytiri and him. It will be interesting to see how the sea reef clan respond to him.
Oh, right at the top of the movie, Neytiri was complaining about Spider spending so much time with their kids, saying that "he needs to stay with his own kind," which is a remarkably shitty thing to say to her husband, who is (or was, I don't know how the Na'vi feel about "dual citizenship") one of "his kind." Even so, while Neytiri was the only one to express outright antipathy towards him (and to also, you know, nearly kill him to punish his clone-father, utterly devaluing his life except as an emotional game-piece), I got the sense that the others could take or leave Spider, except for Kiri. I know Sigourney Weaver talked about the challenge of playing a fourteen-year-old while in her extremely late sixties, but it must've been weird to also play a puppy-love subplot with an actual fourteen-year-old. But, hey, I bought it, so that's movie magic for you.
Been thinking along those lines. Perhaps it is easier to terraform Pandora slightly than Mars wholly. Presumably, the Humans plan to change Pandora's atmosphere to their own needs as well...
I watched Jenny Nicholson's video on Avatar-Land at Disney World the other day and, interestingly enough, the lore of the park is that it's "set" many, many years after the original film, when the human and Na'vi have made peace, but, most interestingly considering the tidbit dropped about the humans planning to invade and colonize Pandora, they say that the reason humans are able to walk around on the area of Pandora represented by the park is a special giant plant that filters the air to make a bubble of Earthlike atmosphere. Now, am I saying James Cameron spoiled the ending of his five movie masterpiece epic to handwave how a tie-in theme park could exist? Well, let's go with, "I'm not
not saying that."
Pandora would definitely be easier to terraform than Mars, even with the distance involved. One of the issues I have in real life with the "space colonization as lifeboat for humanity" idea is that it is essentially impossible for anything to happen to Earth that would make it more uninhabitable than Mars, Venus, Europa, Titan, and so on. Like, it is so difficult to make some other body in our solar system livable that under virtually any contingency, it would be easier to repair Earth (or build some sort of shelter or emergency supplies here to prepare for an extreme disaster) than turn another planet into a remotely acceptable facsimile.
It seems like the major barrier to humans living on Pandora is the somewhat-poisonous atmosphere, and the very unforgiving wildlife, both of which are solvable, and potentially, more solvable than fixing Earth up from the kind of total environmental collapse seen in the extended cut of the first movie. Like, if terraforming Mars was an option, they could do whatever they'd do there on Earth and make life a whole lot easier since they aren't starting totally from scratch.