A couple Xmas's ago I ended up in a car with four other women going to huge shopping center for I don't remember what. Some social event. We drove around looking for a car park for FORTY MINUTES, the whole time the discussion alternated between oh my oh my where is there a car park oh look is that one oh look over there oh my oh my and Xmas table settings. I remember thinking "why don't I just open the door and save myself" but I was too embarrassed to quit what everyone else seemed to accept being stuck in. I feel like I learned a lot of lessons that day.