For what it's worth, the Netflix shows have little to no direct connection to the wider MCU. They're very much their own thing.
Indeed what few references there are to the events from the film (specifically, 'Avengers' since these are based in New York) are pretty oblique.
You could honestly watch these shows having ZERO knowledge of the marvel movies or comics and not miss a single beat.
It's really just a matter of whether or not the content itself interests you. Daredevil is sort of a mob crime drama where the protagonists are a tiny independent law firm in a rough neighbourhood. It's not pretty or feel good, but it's very compelling. The star of the show though is Fisk, by a mile. His presence dominates before you see him or even hear his name.
Jessica Jones is more of a psychological drama and (very broadly speaking) is about how a person deals with surviving abuse. Though decidedly modern, it's has a lot of Noir in it's DNA; centring around a hard drinking, emotionally damaged private investigator looking to escape a past and other such associated tropes. The villain is arguably even scarier than Fisk but in an almost entirely different way. I say "almost" because there's one point of convergence that he shares with Fisk and for that matter Jessica & Matt too.
