A wise person told me recently that 'there isn't a problem for which a solution doesn't exist. If there is no solution, there is no problem.'
So I guess the question I pose here is, what is the solution? Clearly gender-based hatred in any arena is a problem. Yelling at people that feel this way doesn't change hearts and minds, which is what's been going on here, and the reason I'm not willing to jump on the 'hate haters' wagon.
Personally, I love gaming, working, living, etc with women. Too much testosterone creates problems, such as this one. I like balance.
Believe you me, if I EVER witnessed something like gender-based harassment, or any kind of harassment really, going on in an online game I played, I would sure as shit have something to say to those that did it. But I would ask why.