Well if we're already disagreeing about what you're disagreeing about this is going to go downhill fast.
What I meant was I think captrek is saying the creators and writers of Trek made most of the female characters on the show seem to need a male to complete themselves and that the creators and writers were doing a disservice to those female characters by doing that.
I'm confused as to how you think he's defending that attitude instead of pointing out that it's not the best way to portray women in Trek.
Whatever reasons they give, there has always been a problem portraying women effectively in Trek. There are several female characters whose primary purpose is to be the love interest of a male character (Rand, Kassidy, Leeta, Keiko) while Wildman, despite being the only recurring scientist on the show was restricted to doing mommy stories. With the loss of Tasha (who left partly due to lack of development in the character) we had women in the caring professions in TNG (and the security chief character was replaced by a bartender), while in Voyager the captain appoints a woman in her senior chain of command only reluctantly.
Look at NuTrek. A modern update for these characters and yet in the 21st century they left out all the powerful women from the oringinal: the female first officer, the female vulcan leader, plus two of the three recurring female characters from the show (although Chapel gets a name check). The women we do get are two mothers, a green slapper in a bikini, and Uhura, the girlfriend and love interest of the two leads. Even Chapel, a scientist who became a nurse to pursue her fiance into space, is still going to be a nurse rather than a scientist/biologist in the new version. There's nothing wrong with being a nurse obviously but it is going to tie her to McCoy's apron strings and limit any growth for the character beyond a cameo.
Now there were some great characters who didn't really need a man. TOS Uhura, Ro (even her fling with Riker was handled perfectly), and Vash (toying with Picard was fun for her), while Kai Winn, and Seven were given romantic sub-plots that were clearly just sooo wrong for the characters.
I think this thread should be retitled, 'A woman whose only role is as an extension of her man is nothing.'