This drives me nuts: when people accuse criticisms of being in bad faith because other Treks did the same thing. Well, yes, other Treks have made many mistakes, and they are things to be learned from, not emulated.
When people want any of DSC to be more like other Treks (which isn't at all the same thing as having criticisms of DSC, as one can fall into either group or both, no relation to each other), they want more of the good bits, not the awful choices!
It’ll be fine when this all turns out to be Spock’s fever dream because, hey, that Enterprise finale.