In some ways I agree, modern tech machines have the tendency to be "distant".
What do you think might need to happen to make modern tech feel less "distant"? I know that's a hard question as I'm not sure how I would answer it.
The hardware isn't a problem, its the OS with its many nanny contraptions, especially Windows shields everything from you, there are things you simply can't get at, Linux is far better at it but to really get at the root of things you need to have a lot of knowledge.
And then there is software bloat.. I hate that, a browser needs to be a browser and thats it, if I need a mail client I will find one, same with IRC, IM and all that, I want seperate specialised and optimized programs for that.
Simplicity and programs that do what I tell them to do without nagging..
The modern OS is like an enormous pluche and comfortable chair, one you can barely climb out of...
Is that bad? for a techhead like me, yes, I've build 11.000 computers in my carreer so far, I've got the whole tree of X86 chips, 8088 up to Conroe, Cyrix's and AMD's , I've ran/run/am still running everything between DOS 3.1 and Win7, Linux, OS/2 etc so I can take care of myself.. however 99% of the people using computers don't care, don't know, don't want to know about what that box is doing, for them its great.
And "they" are the problem and cause that modern tech is distant..