I think men can deal with some sexism.
Bad attitude. It's not about what people can deal with. No one should have to deal with sexism.
I think men can deal with some sexism.
macloudt said:Are you seriously giving equal weight to these two scenarios? Forgetting to put the milk back in the fridge may lead to the milk going bad and someone needing to run to the shop to buy some more. In a worst case scenario it could lead to someone getting a dodgy tummy from drinking bad milk. Forgetting to take the bullets out of a gun, however, could lead to serious injury or death. Spot the difference?
I'm with propita on seeing humour in this situation. This young man was incredibly stupid for doing what he did, and has no one to blame but himself for the consequences. Sure, 18-year-old humans aren't the most sensible creatures on the planet (if I could go back in time I'd smack the living hell out of my 18-year-old self for a myriad of reasons), but blaming this incident solely on the young man's youth is wrong IMO. Plenty of people that age wouldn't go near a gun if they didn't know how to handle it safely.
The milk goes off? Geeez dude, where the hell do you live where milk freakin' explodes!? What the hell do you feed the cows over there, nitroglycerine?Pingfah said:Of course, nobody bothers coming up with procedures to follow for remembering to put the milk back in the fridge, because it isn't that important if the milk goes off.
Well people forget to follow all procedures when handling power tools. There are numerous people that Jury rig their lawn mower because they can't afford a new one, and the jury rigging cancels a safety feature that ends up getting them hurt. There are people who forget to put the guard down on this or that type of saw, or turn their head to say something while sawing. Or Fix a heater/air conditioner and keep turning the power off, fix it, turn the power on to test it, shut it off, and continue this routine until they get electrocuted because they forgot to turn the power back off again after doing this for hours.Anybody who treats refrigerating milk and remembering to unload a gun with equal gravitas should probably not be trusted to tie their own shoelace, let alone own a gun, or operate any dangerous equipment.
macloudt said:Did I just hear the whine of a downtrodden shiny white male? Oh, the calamity
He wasn't familiar with the gun. The article said he had just gotten the gun. Also, if it is a semi automatic, removing the magazine might make think it's empty, but there is still that one round in the chamber, perhaps he was unaware of this.Methos said:not to mention the fact, that if you're familiar with holding a gun, then you know the weight difference between a loaded and empty gun... it might not be much weight wise, but if you've ever held one, you can tell the difference instantly
I don't think men should be expected to tolerate, any more than women, hate, sexism, abuse, discrimination, etc.Trekker4747 said:I think men can deal with some sexism.
No, but it's not something that's going to go away. So, considering the centuries of shit women had to put up with in the area of sexism and still put up with in the realm of sexism I think the occasional jab at men isn't really that bad and deserved.
So a woman may think a man "deserves" to be shot in the dick. That may help balance out the whole "women still don't get paid as much as men" thing.
Kestra said:Bad attitude. It's not about what people can deal with. No one should have to deal with sexism.
Not with that attitude! Once upon a time a woman was told "We aren't hiring women" and they had to deal with this sexism. But they fought back, and won. But you don't think when a man is discriminated against he can fight back and win? Why can't we? Saying sexism can't go away is like saying racism is never going to go away, so why bother putting up anti discrimination laws to protect black people? after all, the racism will always be there.Trekker4747 said:No, but it's not something that's going to go away
I know like being drafted and forced to die in wars against their will. Having to work in coal mines and die of black lung by age 30. Having to slave their lives away working in the blistering hot sun to feed their spouse and kids... oh wait, you said women. Never mind. But I'm sure women really had it bad back then, having to watch the kids, do the laundry, sweep the floor, and deal with dish pan hands from doing dishes while their husbands coughed and choked on coal dust all day.So, considering the centuries of shit women had to put up with in the area of sexism
Right like being forced to get equal pay per hour unless the corporation wants to be sued. Like getting to be police and fire fighters with equal pay, but not held to the same level of physical fitness as the men. And having men fired for sexual harassment, which is really interesting considering it's not a sexual advance that counts, it's an "unwanted" sexual advance. so when girls go to work and show off their cleavage and flirt, that's fine, and when the handsome boys with the six pack abs flirt back, that's fine, but when the guy with the beer belly flirts back, it's unwanted, and therefore harassment.and still put up with in the realm of sexism
A jab at a guy is one thing. Even a sexist jab at stereotypical behavior, is one thing. Laughing at men getting seriously injured, having their dicks chopped off, shot off, is another. As for deserved, I don't know about that one. I mean, that's like saying "a male is a male is a male. they're all the same. If one man rapes you, all men are rapists. If you can't find the one who did it, just lock up some random man, they're all the same, they're all guilty, they all deserve it".I think the occasional jab at men isn't really that bad and deserved.
Right... again, one man commits rape, another man, any man, should have his penis cut off. By that logic, if one black man robs a liquor store, all blacks deserve to go to jail for it.So a woman may think a man "deserves" to be shot in the dick
Right... because emasculation makes for equal pay. I mean, if mom isn't making enough money to pay the rent, suddenly, a man getting his wiener taken off means she can pay the rent? because every time a man gets his penis chopped off, women world wide get pay raises.That may help balance out the whole "women still don't get paid as much as men" thing.
Oh I guess I could have just said that and saved the wall of text for later.sidious618 said:That's an incredibly unhealthy attitude.
I think men can deal with some sexism.
Oh I guess I could have just said that and saved the wall of text for later.sidious618 said:That's an incredibly unhealthy attitude.
So a woman may think a man "deserves" to be shot in the dick. That may help balance out the whole "women still don't get paid as much as men" thing.
I know like being drafted and forced to die in wars against their will. Having to work in coal mines and die of black lung by age 30. Having to slave their lives away working in the blistering hot sun to feed their spouse and kids... oh wait, you said women. Never mind. But I'm sure women really had it bad back then, having to watch the kids, do the laundry, sweep the floor, and deal with dish pan hands from doing dishes while their husbands coughed and choked on coal dust all day.
Personally, I've never been fond of the jokes and laughter that come along anytime there's a story about a man's groin being injured- it's somewhat sexist, I think.
Do you have something against white people or males?
whoosh means yes?macloudt said:WHOOSH!
Trekker4747 said:All of which occurred because men were mostly running the country and said, "This is man's work! Women stay home and raise the kids and provide a meal for the man!"
It wasn't that it was "unexceptable" to vote" it was that you had to own land, or participated in military service. Husbands paid for the land, not the wives, and women were not allowed to participate in military service, thus were unable. Men who didn't own land, and never joined the military, couldn't vote either. Then there were blacks, and native Americans who got the right to vote with this or that technicality and had the this and that technicality eliminated. The so-called "right" to vote has undergone a lot of changes in America. let's not over simplify it to "everyone except women could vote under any circumstance, up until 1920 when women could vote too".Trekker4747 said:Those same men also created a society where it was unacceptable for a woman to vote, let alone hold a job
What panel are you talking about?Trekker4747 said:So, the occasional woman makes a joke about a man getting shot in the balls. Big deal. I can't say that bothers me nearly as much as a panel of old white men trying to make medical decisions for every woman in the country by saying she has no right to control what happens to her own body.
What panel are you talking about?
You do realize these eeevil white men you hate so much have passed a federal law making it legal in all states to have an abortion since 1973 (roe vs wade). And to try to make the abortion issue all about a woman's right to her own body, is only half the argument; the rights of the unborn child in her body would be the other half of the argument. It's always been about the right of a mother vs the right of the unborn baby, so let's not turn that into a one sided argument about a woman's right to her body, as if we are talking about their right to shave their head or get their nipple pierced.
The endless debates in this country about abortion including the official GOP stance that abortion is wrong in all cases and the discussions this past year on whether or not the "morning after pill" should be covered by insurance.What panel are you talking about?
You do realize these eeevil white men you hate so much have passed a federal law making it legal in all states to have an abortion since 1973 (roe vs wade). And to try to make the abortion issue all about a woman's right to her own body, is only half the argument; the rights of the unborn child in her body would be the other half of the argument. It's always been about the right of a mother vs the right of the unborn baby, so let's not turn that into a one sided argument about a woman's right to her body, as if we are talking about their right to shave their head or get their nipple pierced.
Where I see a rainbow of diversity in the political decisions you see only old white men. Interesting.
Oh, lighten up a little. Testicles are funny. Being shot in the testicles is funny -- as long as it happens to someone else.Personally, I've never been fond of the jokes and laughter that come along anytime there's a story about a man's groin being injured- it's somewhat sexist, I think.
The joy of schadenfreude.Oh, lighten up a little. Testicles are funny. Being shot in the testicles is funny -- as long as it happens to someone else.Personally, I've never been fond of the jokes and laughter that come along anytime there's a story about a man's groin being injured- it's somewhat sexist, I think.
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