Hmmm ... that's quite a bit to digest, you might have to get back to me later on some of that. For now, though, Bruce Maddox brings up a very interesting point. But because we're meant to dislike him, we're also meant to ignore this point. Indeed, those characters in attendance do ignore it and it's a good one:
"If Data were a box on wheels I would not be facing this opposition."
Had this been the reality of the TNG, that Data was realised like that, I'm sure audiences would have a very hard time buying Data's Humanity. But because Data's realised by Brent Spiner with greasepaint on his face and hands, his "Humanity" is undeniable. In my opinion, Data should've at least been modelled after Brent, but been a STAN WINSTON robot/puppet hybrid. Seeing an actress act against that and professing attraction and deeper feelings, such as love would've really been a hard sell, I'm sure. But interesting!
"Data's supposed to be a mirror upon which the audience can explore the human condition," you say. Well, it's clearly the intention behind the character, but that is not what we got. Instead of a mirror, he was a Yellow Highlighter for the Audience, to underscore The Message & Meaning of Tonight's Program for Everybody at Home. Picard, or someone, will say, "Data, do you understand what just happened/what this all means?" and Data will just spell the shit out for us, like we're all as naive as he is.
Let me see what else we have here ...
"I've lost count of how many science articles point to "biology is destiny" with human beings. Studies explaining how we size up the opposite sex based on cold assessments ..." that's an interesting theory from Eggheads in Labcoats, but I'm not drinking that Kool-Aid. The worst Poetry on The Internet nails Love down alot closer than that line of guff.
As far as being a symbol, or icon, or whatever, for striving for an unattainable goal, sure, there's some of that in Data. Unfortunately, along with that comes his needyness, his offputting questions about the obvious and all that. It was rarely demonstrated to the advantage of either the audience, or the character. It came off as condescending, at times. Personally, I like Data when he's doing the adding up and making calculations. He has Mega-Strength and quick reflexes and all that. But the character's definitely the weakest in THE NEXT GENERATION. A lot of lost potential there ...