JJ's films have just as many wonderful character moments as any other Trek.
I wouldn't classify Uhura's whining about her relationship with Spock to be wonderful, or Kirk's xenophobic language he uses openly around Spock.
Why does Uhura get a lot of slack for whining about her relationship? How is it whining to be worried about a loved one?
I do admit that the writing in STiD is not great. A perfect example is the Spock and Uhura conversation on their way to a dangerous mission.
Uhura was dong the right thing at the wrong time by talking about their relationship at that particular moment.
This is one of the reasons why I do not want Orci and his friends to return. Orci could stay but his friends are not just good writers. You don't throw in a romantic talk when you are going on a dangerous mission. You have the talk nice, quiet and private. A good screen writer would have known this. Orci and his friends don't.
Kirk is just as bad as Uhura. He basically screams at Spock for not knowing how to be a friend. Kirk is also far worse than Uhura in terms of given Spock attitude. This is the reason why Spock throws him out of the Enterprise in the first film. Kirk and Spock have been clashing since the first film up until the end. Uhura and Spock have only clashed once and she is called a whiner and even a bitch. That is so not fair.
I see NUTrek as follows. Kirk and Spock are the main leads. Bones is Kirk's henchman and Uhura is Spock's henchwomen or should I say they are both their biggest cheerleaders.
Uhura and Bones have both called Kirk and Spock out on their bs but yet, they have maintained absolute loyalty to Kirk and Spock.
Like Bones helping Kirk out in the first film by getting him on the Enterprise and Uhura not breaking up with Spock after he attempts murder although she is horrified of his actions. She also helps him take down Khan even though she thinks he is putting his life in danger and would never have approved of it. However she still came through for him in the end and she is called a whiner?
I am not loving the double standard here guys.