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Amaris
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I have huge amounts of control, and can be just as placid and silent as anyone, if not moreso. Why, however, would I choose to do so in a movie theater, where I'm in a collective audience that will laugh, cheer, gasp, and cry? It may be a cultural thing, but movies in a theater are a collective, human experience. That's the worst time to stifle your emotions like some kind of automaton.
A movie theater isn't a concert. I go to a movie theater to watch a movie -- not take part in a collective human experience. I just want to watch the film. I would love nothing more than to watch a film in a completely empty theater.
A movie theater is a shared experience. When you get a hundred or more people into the same room, watching a huge screen, together, and getting pulled into the movie, that's exactly what happens. Now, culturally, you see it differently, but it doesn't make it any less valid for me to clap, cheer, cry, laugh, and gasp, while watching a film. If you want absolute quiet and restraint, you can rent the DVD and watch it in your living room. I don't expect absolute quiet in a crowd.