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Talking during movie trailers

To me they are 90 dramatic seconds to give me, or some others, a taste of a coming movie. Please have the decency not to talk.
The difference being trailers are available online and aren't exclusive to seeing them ONLY at the movie. Also, if the theater has the lights up and the doors open, then talking is fair game. That said, I still prefer not to talk during the trailers unless it's a hushed "that looks good" or something similar, but I won't begrudge anyone else for talking during trailers.
Once the movie starts, everyone needs to just shut up.
 
I was on the opposite side from Miss Chicken in this debate when it happened, but I have to say that resurrecting a four-year-old thread in large part just to scold someone for not representing your views is pretty poor form. You're talking to her like you expect her to just pick up the conversation from where it left off four years ago like nothing has changed in the meantime or she's still got the points she made on this issue fresh on her mind.

Some mods may allow you to to (rarely) resurrect a topic if you have something substantial to add to the discussion, and you certainly did add something substantial, but was it really important enough to resurrect just to say that not all Tasmanians feel the same way on this issue? I think that would be a given.

What you're doing though isn't a rare resurrection to add something important, you're purposely digging through the archives looking for old conversations you find interesting and then resurrecting lots of them. That's a no-no. Lots of the people who participated in the old discussion might not be around anymore, some people's views might have changed and they don't appreciate having their old opinions dredged up, and you're bumping new, active discussions out of the way on the main forum page in favor of ones that died a natural death ages ago.

If something you read from the old thread archives looks interesting, nine times out of ten the better option is to just start a new thread with the same premise. That way if new people want to join the conversation they don't have to wade through 20 pages of old discussion to get up to speed and can just read the discussion from the start.
I was on the opposite side from Miss Chicken in this debate when it happened, but I have to say that resurrecting a four-year-old thread in large part just to scold someone for not representing your views is pretty poor form. You're talking to her like you expect her to just pick up the conversation from where it left off four years ago like nothing has changed in the meantime or she's still got the points she made on this issue fresh on her mind.

Some mods may allow you to to (rarely) resurrect a topic if you have something substantial to add to the discussion, and you certainly did add something substantial, but was it really important enough to resurrect just to say that not all Tasmanians feel the same way on this issue? I think that would be a given.

What you're doing though isn't a rare resurrection to add something important, you're purposely digging through the archives looking for old conversations you find interesting and then resurrecting lots of them. That's a no-no. Lots of the people who participated in the old discussion might not be around anymore, some people's views might have changed and they don't appreciate having their old opinions dredged up, and you're bumping new, active discussions out of the way on the main forum page in favor of ones that died a natural death ages ago.

If something you read from the old thread archives looks interesting, nine times out of ten the better option is to just start a new thread with the same premise. That way if new people want to join the conversation they don't have to wade through 20 pages of old discussion to get up to speed and can just read the discussion from the start.

Whhhoooaaaa there. You may be a moderator but please do not attribute to me the motives you speak of. As someone new to the site, as I was when I started writing posts there is a simple explanation for why I was looking through old posts. As a newbie going into a discussion on a topic I quickly realised that I had to go to the last number of pages to read the new replies. When I went into, and anyone could do this, "New Posts" and did the same thing, i.e. Went to the last page I didn't realise I was going to much older threads. I mistakenly resurrected at least three threads. One was The needs of the Many, one was Insulting Remarks, and the other this thread.

Firstly, I was thanked by a poster to drawing to his/her attention to The Needs of the Many, a thread they had missed earlier. It was an excellent small Star Wars clip and it also allowed me to speak to the main actor, a fellow Australian. Others have since watched that clip.

The second, I thought was an existing thread, after all, it was in "New Posts". Insulting Remarks was about weight and health issues and, had I known it was old, I wouldn't have gone there. However, it is a subject that is generating some debate as it's always a current topic.

Now to this one. I was still looking at the last page of New Posts when I replied. As with the Needs... I was pretty keen to have a conversation with a fellow Aussie. I'm originally from Tassie and work on the Mainland of Australia when I have to. I still did not realise at this time it was an old thread. I wasn't really looking at dates as everything was new to me and I hope you trust my explanation that it was my stupidity rather than malice which prompted my reply.

As to my remarks. I don't believe that one has to be for or against someone in a post. As a reasonably intelligent person, with lots of formal writing behind me (apart from my knowledge of this site) I love it when I read different perspectives and start to hear the comments of others, then adjust my thinking. It's crucial to the writing I do.

Yes, I was hard on Miss Chicken, but as Tasmanians we are often the butt of jokes about our heritage. We were formed as a Penal Colony when the English invaded and virtually wiped out every full blooded aborigine they could find. The line still exists and some of us are still glad to consider ourselves Aboriginal People. Many others don't see us this way as we are not black. That's because the males in particular were massacred in one of the most thorough attempts at genocide ever attempted, including a "Black Line" of soldiers and settlers throughout the whole state, equidistant apart to capture or kill any aboriginal person found. On top of that, due to limited free settlers, the population was small and inbreeding took place. It was uncommon but still occurred thirty years ago, and may still for all I know. Australia was settled because it was declared "Terra Nullis" - no living people. In many people's lifetime, Aborigines were counted as "fauna" - less than fifty years ago. Every Tasmanian over thirty knows this history. I am sick of hearing that Tasmanians are born with two heads by other Australians. People think they are funny when they come up to me and look for the stitches where the other neck hole in my suit was closed. Funny to some.

So, when I saw Tasmanians being once again regarded as different to the population I was annoyed as it seemed to add to the perpetual myth which I find when I stay in some other Australian capital cities. My interpretation was that once again we were being labelled as different, lacking emotion, moronic. I abhor stigmatisation, and was dismayed to read others saying, on top of losing my culture, that we, as a group were different. That arrow has been shot and I personally want to move on from this perception of Taswegians as different. We are a richly diverse state in recent years, many welcoming refugees.

As to starting a new thread, it seems most people have their own opinion and it seems to have had its day. You know, it's a big thing for some people new to a site to start a new thread without reading a lot of others. I'm one of those people. I'd like to settle into this site without my motives being misinterpreted. I was going to reply to Miss Chicken as I wrote the post feeling pretty wound up, but I dare say she may read this reply and see where I was coming from. At least, please, aquit me of malice.
 
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I sometimes boo if there are too many trailers (but just in the part where it says "the following preview blah blah," not once the preview itself starts). Get to the movie already! :rolleyes:

Kor
 
Apologies Kor, I inadvertently dragged up an old post. Still good to know people have opinions on this though. i get where you're coming from - you do pay a lot to see a movie, and more importantly make the effort to get there. I kinda like the thrilling trailers though. As a newbie I resurrected some older posts without realising it was bad form. Goodbye old post. Nice talking to ya.
 
I sometimes boo if there are too many trailers (but just in the part where it says "the following preview blah blah," not once the preview itself starts). Get to the movie already! :rolleyes:

Kor

I wish there were movie showtimes where there was no trailers. One thing I hate about the summer movie season is you have a half an hour of trailers before the movie actually starts. We don't need a half an hour of trailers. I used to find trailers cool, but that was before Youtube and Movie app sites like Flixter.
 
Whhhoooaaaa there. You may be a moderator but please do not attribute to me the motives you speak of.
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I was going to reply to Miss Chicken as I wrote the post feeling pretty wound up, but I dare say she may read this reply and see where I was coming from. At least, please, aquit me of malice.
No way, you were wound up? I couldn't tell from the bizarre non sequitur dissertation on Tasmanian ethnic history and racism you unnecessarily delivered in response to being told it was bad form to resurrect a four-year-old thread to scold someone, which you yourself admitted you were doing by saying you were "wound up" and being "harsh" to her. She wasn't insulting Tasmanians (only relaying her experiences of attending the theater in Hobart), and there was certainly no racial element to the discussion at all, so the only one attributing any weird motives here is you. You turned a simple discussion about levels of audience reaction in theaters into some kind of bigoted attack on Tasmanians out of nowhere.
 
The difference being trailers are available online and aren't exclusive to seeing them ONLY at the movie. Also, if the theater has the lights up and the doors open, then talking is fair game. That said, I still prefer not to talk during the trailers unless it's a hushed "that looks good" or something similar, but I won't begrudge anyone else for talking during trailers.
Once the movie starts, everyone needs to just shut up.

I won't begrudge anyone talking during the trailers. But talk in a quiet voice. It doesn't matter if the trailer is available online or not - some people enjoy watching it, so be considerate. Period. And, if for whatever reason you're incapable of speaking quietly, then, yeah, just shut up. You can stand to be quiet for an extra five minutes, and you knew what kind of situation you were going into when you chose to walk into a theater.
 
I talk during trailers, usually to comment if something looks interesting or not. Maybe to sort out plans for later. Not like I am talking loudly or anything.
 
The difference being trailers are available online and aren't exclusive to seeing them ONLY at the movie.

And if you like the trailer enough, you'll eventually see the movie it's hawking, so you won't end up missing anything if people talk during just the trailer.
 
No way, you were wound up? I couldn't tell from the bizarre non sequitur dissertation on Tasmanian ethnic history and racism you unnecessarily delivered in response to being told it was bad form to resurrect a four-year-old thread to scold someone, which you yourself admitted you were doing by saying you were "wound up" and being "harsh" to her. She wasn't insulting Tasmanians (only relaying her experiences of attending the theater in Hobart), and there was certainly no racial element to the discussion at all, so the only one attributing any weird motives here is you. You turned a simple discussion about levels of audience reaction in theaters into some kind of bigoted attack on Tasmanians out of nowhere.

I am entitled to my view without having my motives questioned, and I have certainly written nothing to suggest that I am bigoted. I consider you wrong not to separate my reason for bringing up an old thread which I clearly explained in my last post. As someone completely new to the site, I had to go to the last page of threads to read the most current contributions. It was the opposite in the case of "New Posts". As it was there under that title I presumed it was a new post rather than one which may have been archived. I was new and eager to get a feel for the site. I was not purposely digging around old sites in order to find someone to scold. Your words, not my intention. Only I know the truth of my motives. I have already apologised for that. What more can I do? If you don't accept my explanation and apology of what I did then nothing I write will convince you. I have also apologised for my double postings. Only I know the truth of my motives.

I explained to you in my comprehensive post to you why I resurrected at least two other threads in error before I realised they were old posts. By then I'd read this post and previously given my reasons in clear language. I have not been disrespectful in other posts, I was not in this. I disagreed with Miss Chicken because I saw as another stereotype being added to the rest. I don't see why I need to keep on justifying myself. Haven't others vehemently disagreed with a view without over-ruling by moderators? I have read your response carefully. I think you may have skimmed mine to confuse, and not separate an initial error, from my reason for writing it. They were not linked and I was not on a seek and destroy mission.

I didn't bring up the racist card, rather explained the history that has shaped me, and why I responded as I did. So I gave you a brief overview of our history and the reason why I, as a Tasmanian Islander, am so sick of being stigmatised. Perhaps it could be compared to your own Native Americans always being the baddies in old movies. I sure hope that stereotype has been revised, and that they weren't ever counted in Census as "fauna" as we were around 50 years ago. To explain my reason for writing my post (and surely I shouldn't have to) I explained this. It was not a reason to scold anyone. You aren't separating them, rather launching an attack as if I was on a seek and destroy mission.

Racism still doesn't figure in this dialogue. I have no reason to believe Miss Chicken is racist at all. I'd say not as it appears her reading is wide-spread with an interest in other cultures. It was my background of being treated differently and being treated as two-headed by quite a few mainlanders and I'm sick to the back teeth, add to that the fact that my heritage has been stripped from me and our race despised by many in this lifetime. The comments made by Miss Chicken that Tasmanian moviegoers do not show emotion may enhance the myth that we are different. I have plenty of emotion as you have referred to.

But I won't apologise for my comments. I may reflect that I was a little hard (not harsh as you quoted) on Miss Chicken but my response still stands.

You have been very selective in what you are criticising. I gave our recent history so that you may understand my context that many Tasmanians are often treated as different from other states - too much damage has occurred through our recent history by stigmatising us because of our (then) shallow gene pool. This continues today.

I have not used our/my history to excuse my using old threads. If it's such a no-no perhaps they could be archived or retired although I understand though that the work behind this site is phenomenal as I can deduce by personal experience as moderators. I addressed your criticisms separately but you have blended two completely different points together, it seems.

You did not question my motives for double posting. I was informatively told where I was going wrong and corrected what I was doing and apologised. Once again I ceased as soon as it was brought to my attention.

Keeping 8 year old threads under the title of "New Threads" can be misleading.

I had previously written to Miss Chicken before this and my comments were not remarkable in any way.

I gave what I consider a valid history of a native race that has been regarded as eradicated - I was taught that in schools during my lifetime - as a context to one of the reasons why the perpetual myths have caused so many stereotypes. I may have been hard (not harsh) but I didn't write the article in any sort of anger. My words were considered. I know well the dangers of people sending off emotional texts, emails or posts. What I wrote was a context to my writing, not a "bizarre non sequitur dissertation on Tasmanian ethnic history and racism you unnecessarily delivered in response to being told it was bad form to resurrect a four-year-old thread to scold someone..."I consider this to be insulting and bad form.

I am done with explaining this when I shouldn't have to. I hope any posters might read our previous comments to see both sides of this discussion. so that they are fully informed. Like Dame Melba I once again retire.
 
Like Dame Melba I return once more as I the straw that broke this camel's back occurred at the airport today. I saw on Federal, not state land, the following road safety sign: "We're Slow in Tasmania for a Reason". I guess if our own Federal Govt :brickwall: uses our stereotype of being slow :razz: dim witted :ouch: emotionally challenged in-breeds :ack: from convict stock :thumbdown: the whole of Australia is laughing at us :lol: - officially now. :rommie: :sigh:
 
Getting back on thread. My view is simply as soon as the lights go out, it's time to be quiet if you must talk to the person next to you lean in and whisper to them. I've sat several rows back from people and can hear what they are saying over what ever is playing.
 
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