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Alright then.
What is?
Honestly, who cares what anyone on a message board thinks of you or your boyfriend. Keep Calm and Chive On.
doubleohfive
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Is this the fanfic forum? I'm confused.
Is this the new MadBaggins thread?
doubleohfive
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If it is, the upgrade still doesn't solve the recursive "lack of funny" error that plagued the last few iterations.
PWP, most likely.
I don't care.
All that matters is having a solid, supportive, and respectful relationship with your significant other. Keep personal stuff personal because once it's out there, you can't take it back. You can't let people in on the conflict and not on the resolution because you'll find yourself increasingly isolated.
Also, focus on your life and stop spending so much time on things here. Nothing here is that important.
Also, focus on your life and stop spending so much time on things here. Nothing here is that important.
doubleohfive
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GemHaters
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lol. I can see why you might think that, but no.
Also stop posting things and deleting them or having them locked or threatening to leave. No one is going to take you seriously if you keep behaving this way. Think before you post and if you don't want the attention, lay low and participate in other threads instead. I know that you're going through a difficult time but you're old enough to be behaving more maturely in your interactions here. We can be an incredibly tight-knit, supportive bunch of people. But you cannot keep behaving this way and expect support or respect from everyone.
So, to be clear:
You demanded your other thread to be closed because it veered towards your relationship.
Told us you were deleting your account anyway.
Immediately started new thread, specifically about your relationship.
.....?
I don't get it.
Worse yet, after giving us specific examples of things he's done, you attempt to patch over it with generalities and saying he's not really that bad. Either lied before, or you've gone into appologist mode, I'm afraid. About a half-step shy of telling people you walked into a door or fell down the stairs, honestly. Perhaps he's the only one that cares about you because you won't leave him and give someone else the chance to? Other than the cheating, the jealousy, the control, and the mind-games, he sounds great. Honest!
Either way. Not sure if you're just working on a varation of the MadBaggins game, or bipolar, but I don't wanna play anymore. If you want to praise your boyfriend, perhaps stop trash-talking him nonstop? If you're sick, feel free to ask for support, but don't expect people to blindly trust, given the nonsense that's gone on here. You're new, and came on strong, don't get pissy that people didn't lap it up, recognize the situation, and how you'd react if the opposite was true.
And the biggest mistake most new posters here make: chill. Don't have to make an instant name for yourself, or run around in a manic state to get noticed. Just relax, interact, and have fun.
You demanded your other thread to be closed because it veered towards your relationship.
Told us you were deleting your account anyway.
Immediately started new thread, specifically about your relationship.
.....?
I don't get it.
Worse yet, after giving us specific examples of things he's done, you attempt to patch over it with generalities and saying he's not really that bad. Either lied before, or you've gone into appologist mode, I'm afraid. About a half-step shy of telling people you walked into a door or fell down the stairs, honestly. Perhaps he's the only one that cares about you because you won't leave him and give someone else the chance to? Other than the cheating, the jealousy, the control, and the mind-games, he sounds great. Honest!
Either way. Not sure if you're just working on a varation of the MadBaggins game, or bipolar, but I don't wanna play anymore. If you want to praise your boyfriend, perhaps stop trash-talking him nonstop? If you're sick, feel free to ask for support, but don't expect people to blindly trust, given the nonsense that's gone on here. You're new, and came on strong, don't get pissy that people didn't lap it up, recognize the situation, and how you'd react if the opposite was true.
And the biggest mistake most new posters here make: chill. Don't have to make an instant name for yourself, or run around in a manic state to get noticed. Just relax, interact, and have fun.
doubleohfive
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IMHO, yes. I've seen it happen before with forum members (not here) who were being emotionally abused.
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