^ Pretty sure Guinan thought there was a chance that the Borg and Feds could peacefully co-exist, and since she had her world ravaged by Borg, she's hardly a naive peace-nik...
Being the victim of violence doesn't mean you can always clearly understand your attacker. Especially since, by her own account, she wasn't there when the El-Aurian homeworld was attacked. She was just wrong, that's all.
You insinuating that she would have the same emotional reaction as a human to an event like that without anything to back it up, Sci?