My cousin hates me now, because I refuse to be one of his groomsman. I just couldn't afford it and I know he said he would pay for it, but I know down the road he would hound me to pay him back or take me to court. I'm guessing Judge Judy or one of those TV court shows. He said I'm his favorite cousins, but we never hungout and I really don't know that well. He wouldn't go to a family events on my side of the family. He was never there when I needed him. He would borrow things and he would never return them. I couldn't care less about going to his wedding, hes a con man, he con my side of my family money supposely he passed the entrance test to get into the Air Force, but he failed the test twice. He used the money to go on a trip to Costa Rica or Domanican Republic. His girlfriend cheated on him twice.