Well, ST-One, you're not a native speaker, so how can you really know?
It seems to be the word that's en vogue right now in Germany because it's more encompassing than just gay, but outside of the community that's using it and academic circles, hardly anyone knows what it means. Since it's also used in academic circles ('queer studies') and it's from the English-speaking world, it stands to reason that there's a large chunk of people who don't find it offensive but one can't rule out that there are people (native speakers) who find it vulgar or appalling. There's no general rule how people react to words. Just think about how different in vulgarity words like ficken and Wichser are perceived here by different people.
So, while it's likely that a majority of people don't have a problem with the word, some people do as evidenced in this thread.
It seems to be the word that's en vogue right now in Germany because it's more encompassing than just gay, but outside of the community that's using it and academic circles, hardly anyone knows what it means. Since it's also used in academic circles ('queer studies') and it's from the English-speaking world, it stands to reason that there's a large chunk of people who don't find it offensive but one can't rule out that there are people (native speakers) who find it vulgar or appalling. There's no general rule how people react to words. Just think about how different in vulgarity words like ficken and Wichser are perceived here by different people.
So, while it's likely that a majority of people don't have a problem with the word, some people do as evidenced in this thread.


). Or how relationships between different species may be seen as "queer", non-normative (in addition to the more obvious metaphor of 'mixed', 'interracial' relationships - once also considered transgressive and 'wrong' by the mainstream society) - in the way that shows like Buffy the Vampire Slayer or True Blood have, at times quite blatantly, portrayed heterosexual relationships between humans and vampires/demons as instances of transgressive, "queer" sexuality loaded with shame and social stigma. And then of course, Trek has characters like joined Trills or Changelings that could be described as transgender, even though none of the shows ever fully explored those connotations: the former have a biological sex but a far more complicated gender identity, while the latter have no sex to begin with, but are capable of forming a clear gender identity nevertheless (and shaping their physical, biological sex accordingly in the process). Odo's masculine gender identity is never doubted on the show, despite the fact that it's a gender identity he chose, rather than one defined by his biology.
) They then proceed, with extraordinary arrogance, to speak for all those people, ignoring my testimony on the subject. Truly, malice makes you stupid.