Are we debt free? Yes, excluding the mortgage
If you include the mortgage, that will probably be paid off in the next 60 days*
How did we get this way? By busting our asses. Years ago the wife and I made some very stupid mistakes. But we stopped and changed our behavior and worked and worked and worked to pay down the debt. At times that meant picking up extra hours or a second job. Was it painful? You bet your ass. Regardless we did it.
We went against the conventional wisdom of concentrating on paying off the debts with the higher interest rates. Instead we based our payoff schedule on the size of the debt. We paid off the smaller amounts first. As each of those were paid off we were able to shift that money we had been spending on the smaller debts to the larger debts. The end result is that we wound up still beating the interest monster and we had a much more visible set of metrics that we could see and feel accomplishment with. That feeling helped to keep us dedicated to our goal.
Sounds like somebody has been listening to Dave Ramsey. Sorry about the house though - that sucks. Any chance of buying another in the neighborhood?