NuBSG probably gave us the best mix but I think people get hung up on the fact that Stabuck was a ball-buster while Apollo was calmer and more sensible. His character wasn't bad because Starbuck was more macho though - he was a competent pilot and leader who stood by his convictions while she was a screw-up from a broken home. The Baltar and Six dynamic had a weak male and strong female and it was great! But you also have Adama and Roslin, Chief and Cally, Helo and Athena. There were plenty of competent male and female equal and unequal combinations throughout the whole show. If you focus on just a couple you miss the big picture which is variety.
Alias did suffer a bit from creating an overpowered female lead but that isn't to say that her male contemporaries were weaker, bad, or incompetent, just that she was a bit too good in comparison. Buffy is similar (albeit in a superhero show your superhero will always be better). The breadth of the characters is such that you can't just take Buffy as your one example to compare against your male characters. Firefly is another good example of a mix of male and female characters who are equal overall in spite of their different qualities.
Your analysis of BSG is spot on... I always found it ironic when people complained that (new) BSG had 'weak whiny men' and named Starbuck and Apollo as examples - if the genders were reversed, they'd be complaining that the show emasculates men by making Starbuck an alcoholic screw-up as opposed to his more sensible and level-headed female superior officer, Apollo.
But I wouldn't call
Alias a show with an overpowered female lead and weak men. It may actually be an example of the opposite. I remember that someone once said that Joanie Stubbs on
Deadwood can be seen as more of a potential feminist icon than Sydney Bristow, even though the former is a brothel madame/ex-prostitute, because she is carving a more independent position in an environment where women were very subjugated, while Sydney Bristow's whole life was defined and decided for her by men. I'm not sure if it's a completly accurate statement, but there's certainly some truth to it. And I don't see many weak men on
Alias.
The only show with overpowered women that I can think of that really go out of its way to make men weak is
Xena: Warrior Princess. They even weakened Ares as the show went on (and I thought he'd get a pass for being the antagonist/villain, at least in the beginning) and made him look so wussy and silly in some episodes that it was hard to see him as a real antagonist again.
Though I can see how someone might see Janeway/Chakotay dynamic on VOY in the light of weakening male characters to make the female ones look stronger, but I'm not sure if that was intentional, rather than just the writers abandoning the Maquis concept and not wanting to write conflict within the crew, while simultaneously not having a clue how to write Native American spirituality as something other than a bunch of cliches.
And you have information that it works different with Cardassians...? Maybe they are knocked out with a punch to their elbow?
Cardassians, like many races in Star Trek, have stronger bone structure in their heads than Humans, hence Seska's comment.
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If they have stronger bone structure in their heads, wouldn't it make sense that they have stronger bone structure overall? I don't believe they have strong heads with shaky weak little bodies to support it.
I'm not going to derail this thread in to a more general discussion of the portrayal of men in the media as it's supposed to be about TOS. Suffice to say, I can list hundreds of shows which portray men poorly - we're all perverts, desperate virgins, philanderers, invariably to blame for relationship break-ups, abusers, rapists, incompetent parents, lazy, stupid, childish, selfish, borish, violent and none of us will ever say no to sex no matter how unappealing the person offering it is.
It's okay for women to kill us, abuse us, rape us, attack us, insult us, cheat on us, assault us and generally make our lives miserable because we're male and we must have done something to deserve it.
Shows like
Law and Order: SVU had episodes about males being raped by women, and tried to get across the idea that it's a serious issue.
Homicide:LOTS had an episode about a well-off woman who tried to use the 'battered wife syndrome' to justify a cold blooded murder of her ex-husband that was mostly motivated by financial reasons.
I do see a lot of the portrayal of men as lazy, stupid, incompetent, etc. but it is confined to one genre - sitcom. The 'dumb, lazy man who drinks beer and watches sports all day and would do anything for a pair of boobs' cliche (with a beautiful, smart, competent wife or girlfriend) is one of the things I find most grating in the TV of the last couple of decades. Incidentally, I don't get the impression that these shows are aimed at women - they seemed to be aimed at men that the writers of those shows presume to be similar to their anti-heroes. (Therefore the dumb, lazy guy is meant to be likable, and usually has an impossibly hot, smart, competent wife - a wish-fulfillment if I ever saw one.) Speaking of which, I feel that shows aimed at women like
Desperate Housewives or
Sex and the City portray their female characters as a bunch of unbearable cliches - hysterical idiots/screw-ups, jealous bitches, airheads, frustrated career women, etc.