That's why Uhura is perfect for him. She has emotions but will never be bedeviled by them. She gives Spock hope that there's a way out of his inner conflict (which of course is created by his Vulcan, not his human, half - Vulcans having more violent emotions than humans, apparently to a dysfunctional extent.)
This is the TOS board so the vision of Vulcans is that from TOS - not the revisionist Vulcans that appeared after the series ended, no doubt due to many of the writers (usually female) who focus on feelings when they write.
It was longtime fanon, canonized in ENT, in a memorable conversation between T'Pol and Trip. Dunno if the writer was female - probably not - most of the writers on that show were guys and I didn't bother to notice who wrote what - but it hardly matters now. One way or the other, it's 100% pure, unadulerated FACT now.
I don't know which ENT episode you're talking about, but the canon fact about Vulcan emotions being very strong, much stronger than Human, is most definitely much older than ENT. I knew about it long before I even watched a single episode of ENT.
It was established in TNG "Sarek" (which I re-watched today). Sarek, warning Picard about the dangers of a mind-meld: "Vulcan emotions are extremely intense... We have learned to suppress them. No Human could control them, they would overwhelm you!"
The writer of the episode is
Peter S. Beagle. Doesn't look female...
As for TOS, it didn't establish that Vulcan emotions are stronger than Human, but it did establish that Vulcans used to be very violent in the pre-Surak past ("Balance of Terror", "The Savage Curtain", "All Our Yesterdays").
I'm still at a loss as to who are those
female writers that are responsible for "revisionist" Vulcans and who focused on "feelings". Still waiting for
maryh to provide names. The female writer who did most to develop Vulcans is, of course, D.C. Fontana in TOS. I can hardly think of any female writers who wrote anything of note about Vulcans in any of the movies, TNG, DS9 or VOY. On DS9, "Take Me Out to the Holosuite" with the jerk Solok was written by Ron Moore, while "Field of Fire" with the deranged Vulcan serial killer was written by Robert Hewitt Wolfe. VOY Tuvok episodes were written by Mike Sussman and Michael Piller ("Meld"), Joe Menosky ("Alter Ego"), Kenneth Biller ("Random Thoughts"), Bryan Fuller, Nick Sagan and Jimmy Diggs ("Gravity"), Andre Bormanis & Robert Doherty ("Riddles"); the only Vulcan episode of VOY written by a woman is "Blood Fever" (Lisa Klink) but that's about Pon Farr rather than "feelings".
On ENT, the people mainly responsible for the "revisionist" Vulcans are certainly Rick Berman and Brannon Braga: showrunners for the first 3 seasons, writers of "Broken Bow", "Carbon Creek, "The Seventh", "Stigma", "Harbinger", and the story for "The Andorian Incident", "Shadows of P'Jem", "Fusion", "Bounty", "Azati Prime". The only female writers involved with writing episodes about Vulcans in the first 3 seasons were Marie Jacquemetton, who co-wrote "Breaking the Ice" with her husband Andre, so that's just 1/2 of the writing team of the episode; and Phyllis Strong, who just wrote "Damage" on her own (IMO one of the best episodes of the series) in season 3 (whose events were so much based on what came before that it would be really weird to state that she was responsible for the storyline about T'Pol's Trelium addiction, which had been going on for an entire season, and was directly established in the previous episode, "Azati Prime" and "Harbinger" before that) and co-wrote the teleplays for "Shadows of P'Jem" and "Fusion" with Mike Sussman (on B&B's story) and "Bounty" with Mike Sussman and Hans Tobeason (again on B&B's story), and since those episodes had A and B storylines, for all we know she might not have even been involved with the Vulcan storylines. Other T'Pol/Vulcan season 3 episodes were written by: Jonathan Fernandez ("Impulse", the one with the zombie Vulcans), Mike Sussman ("Twilight"), B&B again ("Harbinger", where T'Pol's erratic behavior begins), B&B and Coto ("Azati Prime").
In season 4 (with Coto as the showrunner), Judith Reeves-Stevens joined the staff together with her husband and co-writer, Garfield Reeves-Stevens. Both were previously known as Trek lit authors. They wrote everything together. So again, we have a male-female writing team. I fail to see how anything written by them could be attributed to "female writers" rather than "male writers". Anyway, Reeves-Stevenses were involved in the Vulcan trilogy, which is usually credited with correcting the continuity problems and errors made by B&B in the previous seasons (such as the mind-meld issue from "Fusion" and "Stigma"). They are credited with writing "The Forge", while the other 2 parts of the 3-parter are credited to Andre Bormanis and Mike Sussman, respectively. Previously, "Home" (T'Pol and Trip go to Vulcan, T'Pol's mother is introduced) was written by Mike Sussman. The other episodes credited to Reeves-Stevenses are "Observer Effect", "United", "Divergence" and "Terra Prime"; the last one, which is really the only one out of those that is noted for dealing with Vulcans (i.e. T'Pol) being emotional, was co-written by Manny Coto and Andre Bormanis. It was the second part of a two-parter whose first part, "Demons", was written by Manny Coto. I think it's also pretty clear that Trip/T'Pol relationship was mostly the doing of Manny Coto, who joined the staff in season 3 and became a showrunner in season 4, and obviously, Reeves-Stevenses are hardly responsible for the creation of storylines (T&T, T'Pol's Trelium addiction) that started before they even joined the staff.
So... yeah, I'm still waiting to learn how it's the "female writers focusing on feelings" that are responsible for theso-called "revisionist" Vulcans... unless someone knows something about Beagle, Braga, Berman, or Coto that I don't know...
