Have you ever Been Cheated On By A Boyfreind or Girlfreind

[Angela 0077]

I thought this thread would be interesting.
At the momment l am not sure if my boyfreind is cheating not.
But at the moment l will not go into that one smiles.
But l have to admit l did cheat on a man a few years ago because he wouldnt do anything but sit in front of the tv just watching VFL football it was so boring.
i wanted us to go out on the town together and do things but he didt want that.he just wanted me to stay in the house
Anyway it will be interesting to see what storys you guys have

 

[Amaris]

Yes. She was dating several guys at one point.

 

[Danoz]

I was cheated on once-- but I found out second hand much later.

When I was dating a really crazy girl in an ugly relationship I kissed somebody else at a party shortly before I broke up with her. It was technically cheating, yes, but seeing as how it was the catalyst for ending a horrible, horrible relationship I never regretted it.

 

[Bears Discover Fire]

To my awareness, never.

I've been accused of cheating (with zero evidence), but have never done it.

 

[Captain_Nick]

Yes. We were playing scrabble one night and she played the word 'sesquipedalian' gaining something like 100 points. Only later did I find out that there was no such word. I was so angry I threw her to the curb... nobody cheats me.

 

[Kestra]

Never. My husband would never consider it, no matter what the state of our relationship.

I've behaved in an unfaithful manner within a relationship myself, however. It's something I will never forgive myself for.

 

[Capn Flukie]

Yes. One of my ex's cheated on me with another woman.

 

[Trekker4747]

Yep. It was like getting kicked in the balls while having my heart ripped out at the same time while having shit jammed down my throat.

 

[Angela 0077]

Yes. She was dating several guys at one point.

That would have been terrible
I really dont get why women and men do that.
I hate it when you know a person is cheating and they wont tell you the truth of what they are doing.
Half of the time you can tell when cheating is happening.
The person acts differently or you dont see them much anymore

 

[Chaos Descending]

Yep. It was like getting kicked in the balls while having my heart ripped out at the same time while having shit jammed down my throat.

It's ironic that you say that because that happened to me once, and I was all like, "man, this feels just like I were getting cheated on"!

 

[Angela 0077]

Yes when it is happening it is terrible.
I just love to have someone tell me what is going on instead of beating around the bush..

 

[Amaris]

Yes. She was dating several guys at one point.

That would have been terrible
I really dont get why women and men do that.
I hate it when you know a person is cheating and they wont tell you the truth of what they are doing.
Half of the time you can tell when cheating is happening.
The person acts differently or you dont see them much anymore

Well, I understand why it happens, I just wish there was more communication. I mean, tell me what's going on. If you (general you, of course) are cheating on me, tell me. It's not like I'm going to hit you or anything. I'll be understandably upset, but I will be willing to listen as to why. I used to be much more inflexible than that, but time, and a friend, has taught me to be more compassionate and understanding.

 

[Trekker4747]

The girl that cheated on me was one of my best friends, we had a deep, personal, connection that could not be replaced it sounds corny, but it's true. Her and I were close, good, friends and had been for many years when we decided to date. Then she got drunk one night and end up making out with another guy, I loved her deeply so we worked through it and recovered our relationship. There was enough of a "lapse" of judgement there I could let it go, there were other issues I had that made it more difficult but we got through it.

I loved her a lot and wanted to marry her, then she slept with another guy and she dropped me like I was a piece of shit. She took my heart and, well, she ruined it. Yeah it's been many years since it all happened and I'm over what she did, but it's still hard for me to trust and love again.

 

[nevermore]

Yep. Got over it.

 

[RoJoHen]

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12, and no, she didn't cheat on me.

 

[Amaris]

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12, and no, she didn't cheat on me.

You're kidding. You haven't had a girlfriend since you were 12? I always figured you for a ladies' man.

 

[RoJoHen]

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12, and no, she didn't cheat on me.

You're kidding. You haven't had a girlfriend since you were 12? I always figured you for a ladies' man.

Not even a little bit. The last time I even kissed a girl was around 2007.

 

[Amaris]

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12, and no, she didn't cheat on me.

You're kidding. You haven't had a girlfriend since you were 12? I always figured you for a ladies' man.

Not even a little bit. The last time I even kissed a girl was around 2007.

I did not know that. [/Carson]

 

[RoJoHen]

Well, now you know. It's not something I particularly enjoy thinking about.

 

[Amaris]

Well, now you know. It's not something I particularly enjoy thinking about.

I didn't mean anything negative by it. I also didn't mean to make you feel bad or uncomfortable, RoJoHen.