Young women and older men....
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At my age that could be deadly.
If you can manage it you should take the two 20's but keep the 40 for messing around on the weekends!
RobertScorpio
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Until I got married (when I was 34) I always dated younger, much younger women (19-20-21). We each got what we wanted. They got to live at my nice beach condo in Pacific Beach, and I got to have sex with young wild women. Symbiotic, is that the word?
Nothing was cooler than strutting down by the beach with my sexy girlfriend and living it up, because EVERYONE knew what we were both getting out of it. So whats wrong with that???
But then...I turned 40. Hot wild sex, while still enjoyable, was losing out to my desire to have kids. So I married my wife, she was 32 to my 34, and the rest is history. Thankfully my wife had once been a stripper so the 'hot sex' was still there IF I wanted it...so it all worked out.
But...ohhhhhh...what memories I have of those days. So if you're a dude and your in your early 30s, live it up and take the sex if they offer it. When you die, and if you make it to the great beyond, you should have a really hot highlight reel for your buds to watch in heaven.
Rob
Nothing was cooler than strutting down by the beach with my sexy girlfriend and living it up, because EVERYONE knew what we were both getting out of it. So whats wrong with that???
But then...I turned 40. Hot wild sex, while still enjoyable, was losing out to my desire to have kids. So I married my wife, she was 32 to my 34, and the rest is history. Thankfully my wife had once been a stripper so the 'hot sex' was still there IF I wanted it...so it all worked out.
But...ohhhhhh...what memories I have of those days. So if you're a dude and your in your early 30s, live it up and take the sex if they offer it. When you die, and if you make it to the great beyond, you should have a really hot highlight reel for your buds to watch in heaven.
Rob
Don't take this wrong, but were they married in the U.S. or Canada? That's a pretty big age difference for someone so young.
I'm having trouble following you. When you were 34 you got married, but you fooled around until you were 40 and wanted to have kids, so you got married at 34?
It is a serious offense, but I'm saying there's a double standard when it comes to how people respond to it. If the guy was the adult and the girl was the minor, they certainly wouldn't be making the talk show rounds and posing for magazine articles:
Your confusion is only natural. RobertScorpio violates canon, and is wanted by the Temporal Authorities.I'm having trouble following you. When you were 34 you got married, but you fooled around until you were 40 and wanted to have kids, so you got married at 34?
They were married here in the States, Colorado to be precise. It always struck me as a pretty big age difference as well, but maybe things were different back in the 50's.
My definition of "mature" is responsible, intelligent, stable.
I was forced to accept adult responsibilities at the very young age of 10. By the time I was a teenager I had a hard time dealing with a lot of peers my own age. Dating was very tring to me so I would mostly date men in college hoping to find someone that knew what responsibility was. There was only one guy in high school that I was ever attracted to. Not only was he very intelligent but very handsome (which is a bonus in my opinion!) He was at the maturity level that I always sought to find. Fortunately, my high school crush and I reconnected and are now engaged to be married. It is very refreshing to be with someone that has enough intellect to understand my sarcastic ways
RobertScorpio
Pariah
I'm having trouble following you. When you were 34 you got married, but you fooled around until you were 40 and wanted to have kids, so you got married at 34?
Yeah...I just read that, and so did the MRS. Let me restate that...
I was married when I was 34. From 30-34 I dated women ages 18-18-20-21...(this part my wife is not reading). But when I reached 34 I decided i wanted kids so I met my wife..five months later we tied the not...
Rob
Yeah, but PB is kind of dumpy. Then again I hit 30 in just over another year, and I don't think I'll be affording La Jolla anytime soon
All i can say is that if two people(Consting adults) connect with each other then age nor most other things wont really matter.
That's a perfectly sensible definition, shame some people ignore it and just say "you're a grown man/woman who still..." followed by something they personally disapprove of. "You're a grown man who still plays video games" or "you're a grown woman who still doesn't have a boyfriend" etc etc etc.
The worst are people who equate not wanting to get married and/or have children with immaturity.
RobertScorpio, thanks for the clarification.
Eh there are plenty of people that are idiots as well as those who shouldn't have gotten married and shouldn't have children. They can disapprove of us and we can disapprove of them. My line of thinking is more like this xkcd comic:
I thought it was kinda funny.
I'm incapable of pretending I'm happy, sure.
The cartoon was sad, doesn't mean it wasn't also clever, funny and creative.
It is a serious offense, but I'm saying there's a double standard when it comes to how people respond to it. If the guy was the adult and the girl was the minor, they certainly wouldn't be making the talk show rounds and posing for magazine articles:
Meh. You know she'll boot him out as soon as he's 18. Then it's back to the schoolyard!
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