I really didn't know how to handle this particular event!
A friend, well someone I used to work with, who I like very much and is adorable, rang and asked if he could "crash" at my place for a couple of days whilst helping out his brother here, down South.
Naturally I said yes, very welcome.
By the time he arrived, after various stops to say Hello to various peeps in pubs, he was rather, well actually very "Full of Christmas Cheer".
We had dinner, more wine (damn the wine) and he fell asleep on the sofa which he had reserved.
It was only at sleepy time when I bought out the duvet to cover him, did I notice a dark stain around the groin area and my surrounding cushions.
The next day, when I returned at midday he was dressed and apart from complaining about a hangover made no reference to what had occurred.
A: Should I have made a scene and sent him to the nearest dry-cleaners?
B: Should I have joked about it and left a bottle of spray and a cloth in easy veiw?
C: Should I have did what I did and ignored it and cleaned it up myself ~ thus avoiding embarrassement on both parts.
Have to add ~ he did stay the next night and bought me a very expensive bottle of St Emilion so I think he may have had an inkling of what he had done.
I am amused now ~ I was not at the time
A friend, well someone I used to work with, who I like very much and is adorable, rang and asked if he could "crash" at my place for a couple of days whilst helping out his brother here, down South.
Naturally I said yes, very welcome.
By the time he arrived, after various stops to say Hello to various peeps in pubs, he was rather, well actually very "Full of Christmas Cheer".
We had dinner, more wine (damn the wine) and he fell asleep on the sofa which he had reserved.
It was only at sleepy time when I bought out the duvet to cover him, did I notice a dark stain around the groin area and my surrounding cushions.
The next day, when I returned at midday he was dressed and apart from complaining about a hangover made no reference to what had occurred.
A: Should I have made a scene and sent him to the nearest dry-cleaners?
B: Should I have joked about it and left a bottle of spray and a cloth in easy veiw?
C: Should I have did what I did and ignored it and cleaned it up myself ~ thus avoiding embarrassement on both parts.
Have to add ~ he did stay the next night and bought me a very expensive bottle of St Emilion so I think he may have had an inkling of what he had done.
I am amused now ~ I was not at the time
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