That's a thrice-told tale, and the actual course of events was different.
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One can infer from that, if one chooses, that the writers and producers of ST 09 might possibly have been familiar with fan films, but that's not what was said.
I don't think there's anything in the least "curious or bizarre" about the perspective that those of us who make these films have about what the level of awareness of our work is, other than that they aren't the responses you may have expected.
James Cawley: I am basically a glorified extra. It started because Marc Zicree, who directed "World Enough and Time," was friends with J.J. Abrams; J.J.'s a big Twilight Zone fan, and Marc Zicree wrote the Bible about The Twilight Zone. They met and Marc said, 'I'm doing this Star Trek thing' and J.J. was very interested because he had just taken the job to do the new feature film. As things progressed, Marc said, 'You really should take a look at James. Maybe there's something in the picture you could put him in. That would be really cool.' I thanked Marc for that, but never expected anything. Then I got a call for an audition. I auditioned in New York. They videotaped it, sent it out.[...]
I flew out to California on other business, for New Voyages, and while I was on the plane I had I call from another gentleman at Paramount who wanted to talk to me in depth about some New Voyages projects. That's what I was doing on the lot. I was with a friend of mine who had been a stuntwoman on Voyager. She said, 'Let's walk by the soundstages.' J.J. came out on lunch break and recognized me. He knew who I was and said 'What are you doing here?'
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One can infer from that, if one chooses, that the writers and producers of ST 09 might possibly have been familiar with fan films, but that's not what was said.
I don't think there's anything in the least "curious or bizarre" about the perspective that those of us who make these films have about what the level of awareness of our work is, other than that they aren't the responses you may have expected.