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People should never be shamed of themselves because there will always be people around them who love them for who they are and that is way more important than being on a list in a forum.

Amen! The hard part can be coming to this realization, but once you get there...awesome.
 
I don't think it's fair to call anyone an 'attention whore'.
I freely admit to, and take pride in, being an attention whore.

People should never be shamed of themselves because there will always be people around them who love them for who they are and that is way more important than being on a list in a forum.
Yeah, that's pretty much how it is with me. Most people can't stand me because I'm too intense, and I'm a very complex person and most people can't be bothered to take the time to figure me out. So, fuck 'em. Those that do take the time to think about who I am and why I do the things I do think I'm fucking awesome (or are really afraid of me) and those people are in return awesome (or pussies in the later case, I'm not scary at all... sometimes.)

I think. I have no idea what I'm talking about.
 
I'm in complete agreement with you, KT, but as you said, everyone is different. There are people on this board who are very sensitive and feel sorry for not getting an honorable mention. Others, like me, tend to be introverted and don't need to be the center of attention to get happy or excited. This is how I am in real life. Others, like you, are very outgoing and friendly, and I certainly wasn't referring to you as an attention whore (but there are people who would purposely do and say things to get a rise out of others).

The way things are going, this is becoming more and more like a glorified chatroom. I'm not really a big fan of "idle chatter," and I'd much rather listen to what insightful, constructive, or amusing things people have to say.
 
I'm in complete agreement with you, KT, but as you said, everyone is different. There are people on this board who are very sensitive and feel sorry for not getting an honorable mention. Others, like me, tend to be introverted and don't need to be the center of attention to get happy or excited. This is how I am in real life. Others, like you, are very outgoing and friendly, and I certainly wasn't referring to you as an attention whore (but there are people who would purposely do and say things to get a rise out of others).

The way things are going, this is becoming more and more like a glorified chatroom. I'm not really a big fan of "idle chatter," and I'd much rather listen to what insightful, constructive, or amusing things people have to say.


Don't worry, I didn't think you were pointing me out at all, I just wanted to make a point hat everyone is different and that no one should feel bad about who they are and if they get noticed or not. That doesn't mean no one likes them so I hope anyone who feels bad can cheer up and realize that someone in this world loves them and they are important to someone.


I don't know anyone here personally but I still care about everyone, even if we haven't spoken. I think everyone is important and is special in different ways.


So be happy because some random girl named Kirk's_Tights loves you :)
 
Probably not as a disturbed as any girl who's not on the list at this point. I think if Lizzie Borden posted here she'd get on the list.:)

Comments like this really aren't helpful. There are plenty of female posters not on this list, and it's silly to imply otherwise. And you know what? Even though a list like this doesn't mean anything, it can still hurt to be left off. There are probably a few people slightly upset already, and something like this is just insensitive.

Ugh, sorry. I just know what it's like not to be picked, and it's not a good feeling.


I am sorry if my comment hurt anyone that wasn't my intention at all. It just came form noticing how long the females list was getting. It was much more a joke about how easy men are to impress and how easily we'll fall for any woman who is the least bit nice to us. I wasn't thinking at all about any woman who might not be on the list. I guess this is just example #12475 that my sarcasm never seems to transfer to the written word. I'll go sit in the corner now you all carry on.:(
 
^ Don't sit in the corner, I like you and I get carried away with scolding people sometimes!
 
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