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Cupid Escrow Service - aka Holdfast Matchmaking Inc.

I'm somewhat relived to not be on the list. I wouldn't mind a crush, but ... still relieved.


But I also find it a little disturbing how many girls here are on the Crush List.


Probably not as a disturbed as any girl who's not on the list at this point. I think if Lizzie Borden posted here she'd get on the list.:)
 
I'm probably one of the only active female posters not on the list. I'm not sure what to think about that, honestly. Whatever. I've made it onto a few lists of cool people other posters want to meet, and I've made it into the mutual admiration society.

I'll admit that I sent in a list for this thread. I don't know what either person looks like. It was more of a "hey, I think you're cool and would like to get to know you better, and maybe something flirty might come of it" sort of thing, instead of a "declaration of undying love" sort of thing.
 
I'm somewhat relived to not be on the list. I wouldn't mind a crush, but ... still relieved.


But I also find it a little disturbing how many girls here are on the Crush List.


Probably not as a disturbed as any girl who's not on the list at this point. I think if Lizzie Borden posted here she'd get on the list.:)


:(:(:( I haven't shown up on the list and I think I'm a pretty regular poster around here. I'm not too terribly upset since I am taken but people seemed to respond positively last time I posted my photo in the picture thread. That was quite a while ago though.
 
I think there are plenty of regulars of both genders not on the list - I wouldn't take it to heart. Your suitors are just smart enough not to send in a list to a morally deviant degenerate like myself. :D
 
I think there are plenty of regulars of both genders not on the list - I wouldn't take it to heart. Your suitors are just smart enough not to send in a list to a morally deviant degenerate like myself. :D

Yeah, I'm not too torn up about it. Though it does hurt to know that I'm worse than Lizzie Borden. :lol:
 
Probably not as a disturbed as any girl who's not on the list at this point. I think if Lizzie Borden posted here she'd get on the list.:)

Comments like this really aren't helpful. There are plenty of female posters not on this list, and it's silly to imply otherwise. And you know what? Even though a list like this doesn't mean anything, it can still hurt to be left off. There are probably a few people slightly upset already, and something like this is just insensitive.

Ugh, sorry. I just know what it's like not to be picked, and it's not a good feeling.
 
I'm sorry but if anyone is actually getting upset and hurt over not being the apple of some stranger's eye in a Star Trek forum.....I'll just leave it at that.

It's just for fun and means nothing. It doesn't mean you are ugly, it doesn't mean you aren't cool, it just means you need to post more pictures because people probably forget what you look like. Guaranteed if people posted their pics more often, their names would be there because I doubt anyone in this forum is so horribly nasty looking that not one person would vote for them so don't get upset.
 
I think there are plenty of regulars of both genders not on the list - I wouldn't take it to heart. Your suitors are just smart enough not to send in a list to a morally deviant degenerate like myself. :D

Holdy, even though obviously you can't give names, could you tell us how many people have sent in lists? like 12 guys and 11 girls or whatever.

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Ugh, sorry. I just know what it's like not to be picked, and it's not a good feeling.

Anything like this will always be a popularity contest, and it only succeeds in hurting the feelings of those not picked. I know it can be argued that you shouldn't care about what other people think, but it's unnatural for people to hold that extreme self-assurance. Regular posters who see they're not on the list will (likely) feel hurt. It's human nature.
 
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I think there are plenty of regulars of both genders not on the list - I wouldn't take it to heart. Your suitors are just smart enough not to send in a list to a morally deviant degenerate like myself. :D

Holdy, even though obviously you can't give names, could you tell us how many people have sent in lists? like 12 guys and 11 girls or whatever.
Hmm, with those odds, one guy is certain to be disappointed somehow... :borg:
 
Yeah, like Jadzia said, more stats would be good! Nothing too revealing just perhaps things like how many straight, how many "omnisexual" - some people perhaps sent in Trektoday or TNZ as love interests... that sort of thing. :p And the matches, were they all boy/girl? Probably not, knowing this place. :lol:
 
I'm sorry but if anyone is actually getting upset and hurt over not being the apple of some stranger's eye in a Star Trek forum.....I'll just leave it at that.

It's just for fun and means nothing. It doesn't mean you are ugly, it doesn't mean you aren't cool, it just means you need to post more pictures because people probably forget what you look like. Guaranteed if people posted their pics more often, their names would be there because I doubt anyone in this forum is so horribly nasty looking that not one person would vote for them so don't get upset.

Oh, I'm not upset by it. I've purposely avoided posting my real picture here.
 
I wonder what the odds are of developing a threesome from all of this? :D

Oh, I'm not upset by it. I've purposely avoided posting my real picture here.
My South Park thread in Misc. has helped me show my face without actually showing it... if you know what I mean. Now people get the general jist of what I look like... and are subsequently disappointed, but that's another story... :)
 
No sex please, we're trekkies.

I beg to differ ... I'm a Trekker, not a Trekkie.

;)


I protest.. I love sex.
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I'm sorry but if anyone is actually getting upset and hurt over not being the apple of some stranger's eye in a Star Trek forum.....I'll just leave it at that.

It's just for fun and means nothing. It doesn't mean you are ugly, it doesn't mean you aren't cool, it just means you need to post more pictures because people probably forget what you look like. Guaranteed if people posted their pics more often, their names would be there because I doubt anyone in this forum is so horribly nasty looking that not one person would vote for them so don't get upset.

So, if I post more pictures...you'll wanna hit it?


 
Oh, I'm not upset by it. I've purposely avoided posting my real picture here.
My South Park thread in Misc. has helped me show my face without actually showing it... if you know what I mean. Now people get the general jist of what I look like... and are subsequently disappointed, but that's another story... :)

That's why I've always wanted to try it. Just need some peace and quiet at the computer - which means this evening.
 
Oh, I'm not upset by it. I've purposely avoided posting my real picture here.


Oh, my post wasn't directed at you, hun. I saw that you didn't really care, which is cool, because no one should get hurt over a bit of fun in a forum. Your posts are wonderful posts and you seem really friendly and I personally think that's beautiful and reflects you as a beautiful person in general. :)


I wonder what the odds are of developing a threesome from all of this? :D


I would volunteer but, as far as I know, I only had one person vote for me so TOO BAD, I GUESS HE'LL BE THE ONLY LUCKY ONE.
 
:( I feel unloved ;)

I know who I would say but shes probably a few hundred admires already:lol:
 
I think there are plenty of regulars of both genders not on the list - I wouldn't take it to heart. Your suitors are just smart enough not to send in a list to a morally deviant degenerate like myself. :D

Holdy, even though obviously you can't give names, could you tell us how many people have sent in lists? like 12 guys and 11 girls or whatever.

Funny you should ask, I've literally just been doing some number crunching and was coming here to post them. Won't name names, but in general terms:

GIRL MOST FANCIED BY GUYS - tied lead between 2, with 5 nominations apiece. Several others on 4 and 3 each.
GUY MOST FANCIED BY GIRLS - tied lead between 2, with 2 nominations apiece.
GUY MOST FANCIED BY GUYS - leader has 2 nominations
GIRL MOST FANCIED BY GIRLS - tied lead between 2, but at only 1 nomination apiece

NUMBER OF GUYS SENDING IN CRUSHES: 19
NUMBER OF GIRLS SENDING IN CRUSHES: 7
 
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