Twas A Good Day

[ShamelessMcBundy]

Well today i had an amazing day. One of my closest friends cornered me today. And ... i came out to her. It was ... a very liberating yet terrifying feeling. But i am so glad that she doesn't care and that it's ok and that it will stay between us. So i guess my question here is ... what is a big secret, to you anyway, that you didn't think you could ever tell anyone else, but once you did, it wasn;t a big deal?

 

[RJDiogenes]

I don't think I have any big secrets. But kudos to your friend for not caring. I'm glad that worked out well.

 

[trekkiedane]

Cool

Cant say that I have any big secrets left, that I like old'ish guys that don't look like poster boys has been known to anybody I know for decades.
What I like doing with them isn't so much a secret as it falls under the category of TMI!

 

[jamestyler]

Good day indeed

I'm not the big secret type... though my ex never told her parents she was pregnant and asked/begged/demanded that I let her tell them when she was ready. They never noticed despite regular visits...

Her parents didn't find out until Zi was born and I called them to inform them of the days events.

 

[Deckerd]

One of my friends did that. It took him years but he finally confessed to me after getting pissed for courage. "I know" I said. He was completely deflated. After a few moments he said "well, that was easy!" and ordered another round to celebrate.

 

[gwud]

That's good that she was ok with it. Personally it always annoyed me when I told friends and they didn't get annoyed or not want to talk to me; after working myself up to it, it was kind of an anti-climax.

 

[ShamelessMcBundy]

That's good that she was ok with it. Personally it always annoyed me when I told friends and they didn't get annoyed or not want to talk to me; after working myself up to it, it was kind of an anti-climax.

I know what you mean so i am glad she reacted the way she did. We had a long talk about it. It felt good for it to finally be known.

 

[sidious618]

I can't tell you what big secrets I have. They're secrets!

But I'm glad you feel good after it!

 

[K'Ehleyr]

That's good that she was ok with it. Personally it always annoyed me when I told friends and they didn't get annoyed or not want to talk to me; after working myself up to it, it was kind of an anti-climax.

I know what you mean so i am glad she reacted the way she did. We had a long talk about it. It felt good for it to finally be known.

Well done you I hope everyone else acts in such a cool manner, I'm sure they will. They probably have an inkling already but it's a courageous thing to do

 

[TheLonelySquire]

I admitted to my wife that I secretly rented a beach house on the ocean for 4th of July week. She already knew.

 

[Lookingglassman]

I told my mother I ripped the hair out of my friend's doll and she beat the heck out of me and made me use my allowance to buy her a new doll.

I learned not to tell anybody anything after that.

 

[Spot's Meow]

I don't think I've ever had any big secrets to tell anyone but I did have a friend come out to me and I knew that he felt very relieved. I said, "I know," and that was that. But then I helped him come out to his family, which was a pretty big deal. I advised him to write them a letter, leave it on the counter for them and then go away for the day. It gave them time to process it before speaking to him. We had a great day then he went home that night and they were all okay with it. He's had a boyfriend for the past 4 years now that his family just loves.

 

[trekkiedane]

He's had a boyfriend for the past 4 years now that his family just loves.

That reminds me of an ex of mine; he now sees my parents more often than I do and is my mothers best girlfriend!

 

[RandyS]

Well, I'm happy for you, but I can't tell you about my secrets.

That would be telling.......

Besides, if anybody ever found that box.......

 

[Capn Flukie]

Well today i had an amazing day. One of my closest friends cornered me today. And ... i came out to her. It was ... a very liberating yet terrifying feeling. But i am so glad that she doesn't care and that it's ok and that it will stay between us. So i guess my question here is ... what is a big secret, to you anyway, that you didn't think you could ever tell anyone else, but once you did, it wasn;t a big deal?

Cool! How did she know you were a trekkie?

 

[DarkHelmet]

Well today i had an amazing day. One of my closest friends cornered me today. And ... i came out to her. It was ... a very liberating yet terrifying feeling. But i am so glad that she doesn't care and that it's ok and that it will stay between us. So i guess my question here is ... what is a big secret, to you anyway, that you didn't think you could ever tell anyone else, but once you did, it wasn;t a big deal?

Cool! How did she know you were a trekkie?

She saw the Klingon in this pic:

After that, he was "out". Literally and figuratively.

 

[TheBrew]

what is a big secret, to you anyway, that you didn't think you could ever tell anyone else, but once you did, it wasn;t a big deal?

I lied to my family and friends about me being kicked out of college for about two years... telling them the truth was hard. Now that I actually finished, everyone is happy for me.