Therin, i specifically told them that i came there for that book..he wanted to ship it to me for an additional 4 dollars..i told him no thank you ill get it local or on amazon. he said oh and i walked away
Ok, so that sounds like you live nowhere near the shop, and he thought he was helping you? Did you expect free postage? Did it have to be shipped? They couldn't ring you when it came in? In any case, wouldn't it cost you about four dollars in travel expenses to go back to the store anyway?
I make a point of travelling into my city's CBD every Thursday night to "do the rounds" of the larger toy, DVD, book and comic shops. It costs me $10 train fare now that I live an hour out of town, but it's been a habit since 1977. I very rarely miss anything, the shopkeepers know both me and my buying habits.