I always had a sense that there was a strong relationship between the captains of the Enterprises and their ships. With Kirk, it almost seemed to be romantic at times. Certainly, the musical theme for the Enterprise (e.g., in ST:TMP) was practically a love theme at times.
Picard also seemed to have a similar love for the Enterprise-D at times, although his feelings for the ship didn't seem to be quite what Kirk's had been. Contrast Picard's reaction to losing the Ent-D to Kirk's reaction to losing the Ent at the Genesis planet. Picard even said something to the extent that he cared more for the Stargazer than the Ent-D when he was talking to Scotty in 'Relics'.
My feeling throughout the movies and novels set post-Generations is that Picard doesn't look at the Enterprise-E quite the same way as he used to look at her predecessor. To me, it seems like an essential relationship - that of the Captain and his Ship - has either disappeared or never evolved with the Enterprise-E. I rather miss the moments where the Captain would give a gentle squeeze to the armrest of his chair during a battle and 'think' to the ship, "Come on, hang in there for one more minute." Sure, it was maybe more of a Kirk thing, but I've seen it there with Picard too.
Maybe I'm being too sentimental, but I've always felt that the Captain should be married to his ship to some degree - that the relationship used to be something more than just a man and a vehicle. I think that's one of the things missing from the stories of the Enterprise-E: I don't see anyone in love with her.
Does anyone else have any thoughts on this? Is it just me?