Patriot? Totally. Nationalist? Not at all.
This.
This, too.
Patriotism and nationalism are not the same things at all.
Patriotism is a sentiment. It's simply love of country. You can love your country for the wrong reasons--but you can also love it for the right reasons--like how well it secures the rights and freedoms of its citizens. I love my own country for precisely that reason.
Nationalism, by contrast, is an ideology. It's the belief that human beings can be divided into 'nations'; that each 'nation' has a rightful territory of its own; and that political boundaries should coincide with national boundaries.
It's an insidious, unworkable doctrine which has caused widespread misery, death, and destruction. As I always say: nations exist only in the imaginations of nationalists, just as races exist only in the imaginations of racists.
Well, sort of. Obviously there's no biological difference that's particularly relevant between the so-called "races."
But there
are different nations in the sense that there are different cultures and language groups. The Germans do not have the same culture as the French do not have the same culture as the Irish do not have the same culture as the Italians.
I don't think there's anything intrinsically wrong with the idea of national self-determination -- that is to say, the idea that the nations of the world are real insofar as there are groups of people with different languages and cultures, and that those groups have the right to form sovereign nation-states (eg the French Republic) or to join with other nations to form sovereign multinational states (eg the United States) as they so choose, and that all nations should respect one-another's equal right to autonomy and self-determination.
What
is wrong, I think, is when someone takes
that definition of nationalism -- national self-determination -- and transforms it into a belief in the inherent superiority of one's own nation and of the right of one's own nation to dominate, subjugate, or exterminate other nations. What is also wrong is when one takes the essential idea of national self-determination and uses it as an excuse to engage in discrimination, legal or otherwise, against members of a different nation (nation in the sense of culture) that may reside within a nation-state's borders. The French nation has a right to establish a French state, but the French Republic has an obligation to treat non-French within its borders equally -- with the same rights to citizenship, civil rights, civil liberties, and basic human decency and treatment as any Frenchman.
In other words, I believe in national self-determination. I do not believe in national discrimination.
Having said all this, I also think that if the nations of the world are serious about wanting peace, then they will gradually learn to forge amongst themselves a unified human identity -- a new nationalism for a new nation: Humanity as a single nation, a single overriding cultural grouping to which all over groupings will be seen to belong, as equals and partners, not as rivals for power.
Anyway, I suppose in one respect I'm a nationalist insofar as I believe in national self-determination, but I'm not a nationalist insofar as I don't believe in the superiority of any nation over any other nation, nor in the right of nations to dominate or discriminate.
All that I think of as being quite separate from the question of patriotism, which I see as love of one's state. But I think being a patriot means recognizing when your state is doing something wrong.
It's like family. You love them, but part of loving them in a mature, adult way is recognizing when they're doing something wrong and need someone to tell them to stop.