I'm sure an apologist will pop in and say, "so what?" (probably Dennis Bailey) But that doesn't change the fact that Trek is now no longer a family legacy experience. It's now truly a series franchise to be whored out.
Ummm... if those are the only options, then Trek is dead anyway, and it's just a question of when we bury it.
Actually, believe it or not, that's what SHOULD happen... in a sense.
The thing that bugged me about the transition between TWOK and TSFS was that they gave Spock this wonderful, believable death scene... and then said "Whoopsie! Just kidding! HE'S BAAAAACK!" afterwards. Which pretty much turned all the drama of TWOK into one big fake-out.
One of the most important characteristics which makes for deep, meaningful drama is that there must be CONSEQUENCES... and consequences does require a degree of permanence.
SO... as far as I'm concerned, TOS should be "left dead." It's the historical grounding of everything Trekkian. It should be revered, honored, and recognized... but otherwise, ultimately, left alone.
I'm one of those who objected to the idea of revisiting these characters, not because I don't want to see them again (I do) but because I know them, very well, and I don't want to see them HARMED.
Imagine, if you will, that someone got ahold of Abraham Lincoln's DNA and created a "Clone Lincoln." That would be... a little disconcerting. Now... imagine that someone told you that this was the new "Real Lincoln," because he has a few things in common with the original... but in all the meaningful ways it's not the same guy.
It does not good to the memory of the original, and it's not REALLY a "recreation." It's just a "cheap copy" which can only do harm to the image of the original.
NOW... as time went on, I was led to understand that this wasn't going to be a story about "The Star Trek crew having another adventure of the week." That it was, instead, just going to fill in a blank in the history of the lead characters and tell us a little more about them. And that was just fine... I became comfortable with that idea. Why? Because it didn't mean tossing aside the stuff that was already there.
My comfort level remained relatively high until I saw the first indication that they were, in fact, tossing aside prior stuff. At first, just a few indications... the use of the "Enterprise chevron" for everybody, for instance, not just the Enterprise., for instance. This qualified as "warning bells" that it wasn't going to "fit" completely. But I was willing to give that a pass.
At this point, though... we know a lot more. And even given the possibility of a "reset switch" in this film (which, while an obnoxious cheat, is the only hope I have for the movie to even marginally avoid being in total contradiction to everything which has come before over 40+ years) there will still be massive changes which weren't necessary and don't really add to the storytelling.
So... I'm pretty much in acceptance that this isn't part of Star Trek, as it's existed for my entire life. This is something new. And the changes aren't really improvements... they're just changes. A few are "improvements," a lot more are (in the eyes of many, at least) more a matter of "damage" than "improvement" and far more are simply "just because we can."
Now... is it possible that this could be a "Star Trek Reborn" sort of thing, where an entirely new generation of fans will come to love this as much as we all did? Possible... but given what I've seen so far, I doubt it very much. This will be a "one-shot flick" that people will enjoy, and then forget about. It'll get decent, but not fantastic, box-office. It may lead to a sequel... but that's far from a given. But if it DOES have a sequel, that's a sequel to this movie... this NEW franchise... and will (like this movie) not be part of what's been special enough to keep us all talking about it for what's rapidly approaching a half-century now.
"MY Star Trek" is dead. But I can still go back and watch my old family 8mm movies. This new "Star Trek" isn't the same... and it's not even really related. It's just an imposter. And I doubt, very much, that it's going to spawn the amount of "family dedication" that the old one did... it's just the equivalent of an "Elvis Impersonator" for Star Trek.