This idea of using drugs to make her less of a typical Vulcan to promote any romance smacks of bad writing and lack of creativity.
Reading this, I immediately thought of Spock and
This Side of Paradise, which I thought was well-told and poignant storytelling. But IMHO, I don't think the goal in either case was to promote romance; I think it was to force each Vulcan's suppressed emotions to the surface and explore the ramifications of that, and romance was one of the consequences.
I always had Sarek and Amanda in the back of my mind when I watched Trip and T'Pol. Something had to ignite that relationship too...some spark that got Sarek to thinking that this young, illogical, wildly emotional human was (of all things!) bondmate material. Just as with Trip and T'Pol, there may have been initial friction, even dislike; personality clashes; miscommunication, though Sarek's ambassadorial training may have lessened that possibility

; awkward signals of affection from one to the other, out of sync, as each struggled with the other's cultural differences.
But how did Sarek come to develop affection for her? Somehow I don't think it was simply "the logical thing to do," as he joked in that episode. Maybe it was
pon farr, maybe it was some lowering of his emotional barriers in private with her because he sensed a kindred soul and wanted to explore the possibilities. As T'Les said, Vulcans are sensitive to emotions, even if they may not express them.
There are actually a number of TnT'ers who aren't happy at all with the books. Some still like the fact that Trip isn't dead, and the fact he's been separated from T'Pol doesn't bother them because they actually like angst. But I myself and most of my online friends agree that the relaunch books aren't really any better than TATV itself - the character assassinations are still present, the "will they/won't they" angst from the last half of S3 and all of S4 is still there, and Trip might as well be dead because he's being forced to live a lie, and away from the people he cares about. And frankly the end of LFM doesn't give any indication that that condition will ever change for him.
Bolding mine.
Gah. That alone has pretty much made me hesitate to read that book.
Keep in mind that the poster you quote has not read the book either.
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I did read
The Good That Men Do. Character assassination? Trip "forced" to live a lie? Angst on the level of Season 4? Nope, not in the book I read. Granted, I am a Phloxist, and I have a more optimistic perspective on things.

The part I enjoyed the most was the "fix-fic" aspect, wherein the authors did a "re-interpretation" of the Thing (sometimes to hilarious effect) while managing to keep canon intact. Pretty neat trick.
I don't know where the T/T subplot is headed in the Relaunch, but it seems illogical for me to write it off, considering all the clues that were dropped that indicate there is more to come. I'm willing to wait and see where this goes. I'm a "glass half full" kind of gal.
But don't listen to me--read the book and decide for yourself.