Same, Lord Hierarch. TOS has always been its own thing to be. The connections to TNG forward were specious at best and did not fit.
I just don't see how its more difficult than TMP. It's an adjustment of visuals...never mind. Won't belabor the rotting corpse of a dead horse any longer.
Sure it's a dead horse but this point seems to get misunderstood far too often.
I don't think TOS is at all incompatible with TNG.
What makes the DSC/SNW "visual update" unable to work is that it's not moving forward. I can suspend my disbelief enough to believe that the TOS style gave way to the TMP style over a few years, and then whatever changes happen going forward.
The DSC/SNW issue is that this new style is happening at roughly the same time as the TOS style, making me unable to suspend my disbelief. Those two things just can not exist concurrently. To make it even worse, they have introduced things like the Enterprise that are different now and can't possibly exist concurrently with one another.
I'm ok if things change in a progression... Klingons looked one way.... then in the future, they look a different way. Ok? Sure whatever. Something happened.
What I can't believe is that Klingons looked one way... then in the future, they look a different way... but then prior to that, they looked different again, even though we already knew what Klingons looked like at that time period... then in the future, they look different again.
tl;dr changing things that occur after other things is totally fine... changing things that happen previous or concurrent to others is not.
Once I came to terms with it, my interest in post-TOS Trek has really evaporated.
I'm a 90's kid, so i'm primarily in the TNG/DS9/VOY camp but still hold TOS dear.
It was once the Kurtzman era decided to erase TOS that I lost interest in the new stuff. PIC is cool, but they're bound and determined to keep beating the 23rd century horse.