Imagine being a little kid while the Enterprise is attacking the Borg. What parent in their right mind would allow such a thing.?
Replace "Enterprise" with "Saratoga" and the answer is literally Ben Sisko.
I've always disliked the idea of families (particularly children) on Starfleet property for daily or special ops. Captain Picard Day would unfortunately be suspended, which I'm sure would devastate Jean-Luc. Supposing Peter Preston was an Engineering cadet (in theory?) on the 1701 Enterprise as Scotty's nephew, why couldn't Wesley similarly be on the 1701-D as Crusher's boy wonder nephew? Related as family, sure, but not parent-child.
Families make the most sense to me on DS9 and Voyager. Well, not initially on Voyager, but 75 years is a loooong dry spell, so... But on the Enterprise et al. and as a rule, not as an exception? Total madness.
If anything, I think they missed a potentially good story. The Borg nearly turned Earth into a giant recharge alcove and blew up half of Starfleet at Wolf 359 on the way.... It seems to me that was the chance to have an episode focussing on the conflicts when
all the civilian families essentially get evicted off front-line ships. Imagine the turmoil when the personal, practical, and political all come together in forcing civilians out of their homes--even if that home is a heavily armed cruiser patrolling enemy borders--and how that affects the ship's crew? This would probably fit in best right after BoBW, perhaps even as a different way to write the
Family follow-up episode.
After promising this charming exploratory village-in-space lifestyle, the cold, hard reality sets in: officers and their families have some tough choices to make. Stay or go? Accept the risk or say it's not worth it? Agree with Starfleet's newfound caution or feel betrayed and embittered? When the family you thought would be there for the entire mission are now colonists or chilling on a starbase, would you even want to stay onboard yourself?
Having Keiko, Molly, Yoshi, Jake, Nog, Alexander, Joseph Sisko, Quark & Rom, etc. etc. etc. all made sense and added
so much to DS9. For TNG, they could have written the vast majority of family-centric episodes with a guest star of the week.
Space is dangerous, the ships go exploring but let's not forget the shooting parts, and Starfleet is not a rebrand of Royal Caribbean cruise lines. There. God I feel old and cranky now.
