My point. If I say "in at least one way, Chakotay was a better captain than Janeway: he promoted people", you can do one of two things...
1. Explain your perspective, as you did.
2. Accuse me of hating women, which you did not.
Your response was the reasonable one, and the one that allows for meaningful dialogue or debate. Irrational accusations don't.
There is a 3rd option - posit the totally not insane idea that Janeway was a huge fan of the show Community as was actually performing a psychological experiment similar to Prof Iain Duncan's from Social Psychology | Community Wiki | Fandom and was trying to see at what point Harry would break