Exactly.I think it's clear that our man Chris has the hots for Orion women, and he may have sexual fantasies about having them serve him as slaves, but I'm not sure if he should be judged by his sexual fantasies. I'm sure a lot of people have sexual fantasies that would be considered unsavory if they were known by the general public. The question is if Pike would actually do it. If Pike actually had the chance to own Orion slaves, would he? I doubt it, but YMMV.
This nuanced perspective is a far cry from the premise that Star Trek is devoid of any and all misogyny. The fact that there are characters present who sanction it, who engage in it without rising above it the way Pike might/arguably would/probably would, is enough to find it a mistaken premise.