Ugh, I hate hearing stories that end that way. I rescued a horde of tapes from my aunt and cousin who were planning on doing that with my uncle’s videotapes that weren’t home movies. He had a syndicated run of the original series from the late 80’s. I tired many times in the late 90’s and early 00’s to record the entire series but the advent of DVD made me abandon that daunting task. I hope in the future to do a vlog that displays Star Trek in its analog days, something I find myself drawn more to than watching the remastered versions.
Sorry about that.
The reason I wasn't interested in my old videotapes anymore is that I'm blind now. I quit watching TV at least 14 years ago so that's how long those tapes were sitting idle in my bookcase and i can't even sort through them myself.
I even almost threw away a 28 year old video of myself playing bass and singing in a rock band at an annual biker party called "The Hogfest" in 1994. It's the only video that was ever made of me playing in a band.
The problem was that I thought I hadn't labelled that video properly so the only way I could save it would be to have someone else go through a couple hundred of videotapes to find it and I felt it was too much to ask so I didn't even mention it to anyone. I was an idiot not to always properly label my home videos.
I guess I was so down on the fact that I would never be able to see it again that I was ready to just dump it along with everything else. I could listen to it of course but that same performance was also recorded on audio cassette tape which I still had and I was careful to save all my audio stuff. I was feeling pretty sad about finally throwing all that stuff away that I can't see anymore after uselessly holding on to it for so long.
So the very night before my old house was going to be cleared out, my sister's husband, the brother in law I mentioned before, called me and asked where my old biker party video was, I had shown it to him once long ago. Earlier that day, he had helped me grab some last things before the house was cleared out and he had noticed the bookcase full of videotapes that I was leabving behind and then later wondered where that particular video was.
So I explained the problem to him and whined about how I can't see it anyway. Bless his heart, he said "Well, if you're not interested in that tape, what about the family, they might like to see their ol' uncle Robert in his younger days actually playing and singing in a rock band." he wanted to find it and get it digitized.
So my brother in law started getting ready to go over to my old house intending to grab all the non-commercial videotapes he could find to load in his car so we could hope to find that video later, the house was due to be cleared out in only hours. I was afraid I had put that video where he wouldn't find it.
While my b in law was getting ready to go over to my old house, he kept asking me questions about the video, trying to prod my memory and At that moment, I had a flash of memory and suddenly I realized that I HAD labelled it after all, very distinctly with the band's name, I could see it in my mind's eye. I had gotten so down on not being able to see that stuff anymore I had just pushed all of it out of my mind long ago.
So I told him what to look for, he wouldn't have to grab all those tapes after all. So we hung up and I waited while he went over to my old house to looked for it. He called back and said he found it. Not only that, he found two copies of it clearly labelled, I had completely forgotten that I had made a copy so I wouldn't wear the original out. Apparently, even back then in 1994, I knew digital video would someday become common so I was saving the original tape for the day it could be digitized. After hanging on to it for so long, I almost threw it away. But thanks to my brother in law being such an avid media collector, it was saved. God bless all media collectors.
So just in case there was more, my b-in-law went ahead and looked through every tape in that bookcase, staying on the phone with me. As he looked, he said "There sure are a lot of TNG, DS9 and B5 tapes, what is B5?" I told him what it was and he said Are you sure you don't want these? The media collector in me almost wanted to save them but I couldn't believe anyone could be interested in them so i said to leave them behind.
I had been selfish in not realizing that my family would want that video of me playing in a band. My other, younger sister for example, had known the other guys in that band, she had been friends with the wife of one of the guitar players and had been the one who introduced me to him. She had no idea that the video existed and she's very excited to see it.
I hope I haven't bored y'all too much but it was such a wonderful thing my brother in law did to have saved that video at the last minute when I knew for sure it was forever gone.
Robert