I made myself feel a little guilty a week or two ago. I've mentioned in the animals thread that I follow the horse rescue Colby's Rescue Crew, and in some of their videos the person doing the videos referred to "my wife", and I had just assumed that her spouse was a guy. A week or two ago I was I reading through her bio on their website, and it turns out the woman who runs it is married to another woman. I like to think of myself as a very open minded liberal, and I was disappointed in myself that I automatically made the assumption that she was married to a man.