It's not the number of times you've responded but how you respond, ignoring what one of the show's writer's said and even contradicting yourself at times. You said it could be completely random that it would be a group of all-women and that it shouldn't imply anything at all, yet you also said it could be evidence of ceremonies that are segregated by sex. I merely wanted to know if there was a reason. You went on a rant that it doesn't matter. You went on a rant that it doesn't matter. One of the writers of Picard, Michael Chabon said that Romulan society is matriarchal and Rhiansuu hint at that as well. Okay, that might be why they portrayed Oh's group as all women. To convey that idea without having to actually say it. An example of show, don't tell. Yet you still insisted that the scene couldn't possibly have any meaning, when it seems like there's evidence that it might.
But you keep going on and on that it doesn't matter, an same gendered group is totally coincidental, etc etc. If a writer is trying to convey a group being random, they'd probably have them be an uneven mix of male and female. If not, it might be for a particular reason related to the story, maybe it's an internal bias on the part of the writer, or maybe it's supposed to reflect society at the time (ex old movies showing US soldiers as being all-male VS. movies set in modern times showing US soldiers being made up of men and women soldiers).
I was never talking about your desire to know more (which is a big part of why I didn't quote you specifically in my original post). I was talking about the general implication made several times in this thread by some that the scene somehow wouldn't make sense unless it was considered proof that the Zhat Vash are all women (which is blatantly false) or female dominated (which is still entirely up to interpretation at best, regardless of Chabon's intention). With or without any given background information, the scene makes perfect sense.
And it's not a contradiction to say that maybe the group is completely random OR maybe there are separate ceremonies for men and women. It's just a line of speculation about the many possible interpretations of the scene that don't require the Zhat Vash to be an all female organization (which was the original complaint in this thread that started this conversation in the first place), all of which would be perfectly logical
From where it was in TNG? I'd say it's arguable. I don't recall "bad-ass" women being a focus in TNG. It was male-centric in that regard. We got plenty of typical alpha-male scenes with Riker unbelievably taking down a Klingon officer that's towering over him, Worf being the #1 bad-ass who takes takes out the evil Duras and avenges his mate after she was put in the 'fridge. He's also depicted as a stereotypical male, closed off from his emotions and stoic. Klingon warrior culture itself was heavily male-centric that evoked Japanese bushido. Women were shown early on being soldiers in that S2 Riker episode, but after that it seemed like it was a male-centric warrior culture. And I think Picard was portrayed as a reckless bad ass in his youth, and even got a John McClane episode. And Picard was the patriarchal figure to the entire crew, and who mostly lectured everyone else about the moral thing to do.
Now we have a show where we see a female-centric warrior sect that evokes Japanese bushido. The #1 bad-ass initially is Dahj/Soji who has all the great hand-to-hand combat scenes, and takes all the bad guys in superhero-like fashion. The second one is Elnor, who's a man but was raised by an all-female warrior sect, and who is sensitive and soft at times. And now Picard is now the one being lectured too and put in his place, mostly by women.
First of all, the most central point my original post was trying to make keeps getting lost in this conversation, so let's revisit it again:
Using (or endorsing) a phrase like 'the Pendulum swinging fully in the other direction' does not mean 'this is just like some random thing from the last 20-30 years'. It means 'this is just as bad (towards men) as the worst examples from the previous (anti-women) era'.
TNG has significant issues. It is not the far end of this pendulum. TOS has major issues, but even it is not the far end of this pendulum. And anyone who looks me in the eye and says Picard is just as bad as TOS but in the other direction is, imo, either ignorant or lying.
Secondly, even in regards to TNG specifically, I'm not buying this at all. Sure, Picard has some tropes transferred to women that TNG had for men. But in addition to Soji, PIC has Elnor who is still an example of PIC having the male bad-ass just like TNG did, no matter how sensitive he is nor the fact that he was raised by women (Why does that even keep being mentioned at all? It has no relevance to anything.) And PIC also has Rios right there who is very obviously comparable to Riker, only with less obsessive emphasis on how sexy he is supposed to be. So even on this one point, what PIC has is not the mirror image of TNG. It's a more fundamentally balanced picture.
And of course there are MANY other issues on TNG that simply don't have any analog on Picard at all. Picard does not replicate the randomly permanent catsuit of counselor Troi or anything equivalent for any male character. It does not replicate the fundamentally sexist writing issues of episodes like 'Justice' or 'The Child'. It does not replicate the treatment of Tasha Yar in general (why is her backstory about *gang rape*? And even after being brought back to be given an actually decent send-off instead of the flippant death from season 1, she had to be brought back to be kidnapped - again - held prisoner by a man who was forcing her to marry/live with him - again - and have her child stolen from her, all without even getting a single extra scene). Nor the treatment of Troi in Nemesis (rape scene with no reason to exist whatsoever except to motivate Riker - not Troi, Riker), nor the randomly out of character discussions about boobs in Insurrection. Nor are the Zhat Vash, matriarchal as they theoretically may be, anywhere close to TNG's depiction of the Ferengi.
This is just off the top of my head and I'm entirely sure if we would take the time to go through episode by episode we could find a whole lot more. So no, Picard is in no way a mirror image of TNG. It has massively better balance between and respect for both male and female characters than TNG ever had/did.
I never said it was a political message about women "speaking truth to power/Picard." That's you inserting your own assumptions into the conversation and assigning what you think is my intent.
I never said that was the focus of the series. You're creating strawman arguments.
You started your statement by agreeing that Picard was the pendulum swinging fully in the opposite direction (a claim that had very clearly been made in the context of how the series treat men vs women) and then listed all these other things as evidence of that.
I fail to see how Picard getting lectured by women and a sensitive man is in any way relevant to the conversation if it ISN'T about women having more focus or power than the men. If it's just about Picard getting his personal tables turned on him (which - I have said the whole time is all it is) then it has nothing whatsoever to do with gender relations on Pic vs gender relations on TNG or any other old examples.
I also fail to see how going out of your way to point out how many women are on the show and also repeatedly implying that Elnor should just as well be categorized with them rather than with the other men because he's 'sensitive and was raised by women' has any relevance to the conversation if it isn't about claiming that women (and Elnor) are getting most of the attention on this show. The other poster you were originally agreeing with most certainly intended that to be the point, even if you didn't realize at first they thought it was a bad thing whereas you don't.
That's interesting. So you're argument that Riker was lecturing Picard in the same way as Troi, but if it happened prior to Picard uncharacteristically giving shit to Soji about her fears, then apparently Riker's lecturing was ineffective whereas Troi's was successful, because after Troi told Picard off, his second round with trying to convince Soji went better.
Honestly, I don't really see the order they all happened in as particularly important but you seemed to think it meant something that Troi was first and Riker second, so the correction seemed necessary.
But you're probably correct that Troi was more succesful in general because Picard as a person strikes me (even back in many TNG episodes) as not incomparable to a bulldog when it comes to his own ingrained prejudices. It does not surprise me at all that if you really want a message about his own behavior to truly sink in you need to very pointedly get his attention first rather than beating around the bush with casual friendliness.
And I rewatched that scene where Soji is telling Deanna that she can't be sure of anything, her voice is shaking, she's about to cry, and tells Deanna that she can't trust her and especially not Picard, and then Picard interrupts and is basically and insensitive asshole to her. Holy shit was that out of character for him, whether it be TNG Picard or PIC Picard.
I don't think so, really. He has a tendency to be insensitive and bulldogish when he's truly convinced that he's correct and therefore if he just pushes hard enough other people will be convinced by that (because 'that', in his mind, is 'clearly' the truth). I think it was worse than usual in this scene for a number of reasons, but they all make sense in story. First, he's not used to dealing with kids (other than Wesley who is in no way normal) and has never fully grocked how to moderate his behavior toward them relative to his behavior toward adults. Second, he's a Captain and a Diplomat, not a socially gifted man. He's never performed as well outside the regulated confines of Starfleet service as he did inside them. And thirdly, he's spent years hiding in his vineyard wallowing in self pity and Nepenthe is the first moment since before his resignation that he's really starting to feel like he's truly making progress on a great mission again, so he's both rusty and also too excited/energized to separate his zeal for the mission from Soji's actual needs.
Take the story and transplant it onto the Enterprise instead of with a civilian kid and remove Picard's long hiatus from, well, any life at all from the equation and I don't think the result would really be all that different from any number of examples from TNG or the TNG films.