No, you missed my point. By showing what the south did after losing the war, I was pointing out how much worse it would have been if they’d won. Making slavery a permanent part of their rights as southerners was pretty much a guarantee. No, they didn’t need slavery to make black lives intolerable, but that was FAR from their main goal. Their main goal to maintain ownership of black lives and the progeny of those lives.
I’m not sure you get how firmly entrenched and insular the “southern lifestyle” was and is. Right now, many of them have some of the same loyalties, prejudices, etc, that have existed since before the founding of America. Slavery was outlawed over 150 years ago and some southerners still think black people should never have been free. Slavery in the US was not the same as slavery in other countries. Other countries had some slaves who were ordered freed. As I have pointed out, slavery in America was based on white supremacy, meaning black people had no other purpose but to be slaves. It is unlikely that mindset existed in Brazil or even England, especially since slavery was ended in those countries without a civil war. It is unlikely that mindset would have changed at any point if southerners had won the war. I think the naïveté is in thinking that American slavery was like anywhere else in the world.
You are assigning virtues, common sense, and human decency, to people who are undeserving.
Somewhere along the line you two seem to have lost the gist of the discussion, which was what might have happened IF the south had won the civil war, not whether or not the south COULD have won the war.
If you’d like to pick that discussion up, I’m here for it.