^I understand. My sister has a very similar problem: she tries to be perfect and burned herself out with that attitude. Now she tries to be perfect at being imperfect - not exactly the right tactics imho.
But you realize what's happening and that's the most important step. Switching back a gear or two is the most difficult one but there time is your best ally. The older one gets, the more relaxed does one get. An if you need a shoulder to lean on, we are just a mouse click away.
I can't speak for the others but as far as I am concerned, I may disagree with Mod decisions against myself or my friends but in such cases I PM the Mod in question and try to solve the problem (more often than not it's simply a misunderstanding). And occasionally I even see their point
I admin several small boards and hence wouldn't openly critizise a Mod or Admin unless I'm convinced they act irresponsibly and develop a god-complex. And using personal info against someone, Mod or ordinary mortal, is imho far below the belt line and totally inexcusable.
*ducks and runs*
But you realize what's happening and that's the most important step. Switching back a gear or two is the most difficult one but there time is your best ally. The older one gets, the more relaxed does one get. An if you need a shoulder to lean on, we are just a mouse click away.
I can't speak for the others but as far as I am concerned, I may disagree with Mod decisions against myself or my friends but in such cases I PM the Mod in question and try to solve the problem (more often than not it's simply a misunderstanding). And occasionally I even see their point

Practize makes perfect!It's funny, I used to have exactly three hiccups. Then they were done. Same with sneezes. Three and done. Now they tend to go on and on and on and on...![]()
*ducks and runs*
