Because I honestly don't think ANYONE does. I could be wrong but I honestly don't think
@Vger23 or
@fireproof78 or anyone else comes here thinking "Wow, I hope someone else likes that so that it validates my feelings on it!" I think they come here to talk about something cool they just watched with other people who think it was cool. Others can feel free to correct me.
For example, I loved The Last Jedi which is a reasonably unpopular opinion, even in the Star Wars forum. Believe me, I don't go in there because I have doubts about my love for it or else my self worth suffers, that would be the absolute wrong place to seek validation. I go in there hoping to discuss the cool things in that movie.
I actually care far less about whether or not anyone agrees with my take on something or not than I do about simply watching the reactions unfold and, to your point, talking about cool things that I liked about an episode or arc.
But this has been a fascinating discussion, because it definitely illustrates that different people are motivated by different kinds of discussion. Some people apparently find discussing things they really like to be boring, and are only engaged / happy when they are being critical. Others are just the opposite. Still others are somewhere in between.
I personally am one of those who doesn't really want to spend time discussing ANY show I don't
really love. I mean, there's really no franchise in all of media I like or care about more than
Star Trek, but even here, I'm generally talking about TOS, the movies, and DSC. I hardly ever make an appearance in any of the other forums. It's not because I don't like the shows...it's just I don't like them enough to engage in constant discussion about them...and I LOVE all
Star Trek. So....yeah, that's a huge calibration point for how willing I am to spend time talking about a show.
And...for shows I don't like....again, I'm not sure why anyone finds it a valuable use of their time to constantly crank out criticism and complaints. But, to be fair, it's all based on what the individual poster enjoys. For me, life is too short to waste on discussing something on TV I'm not super-passionate about.
@CommanderRaytas brought up
The Orville as a perfect example. I like the show, and have seen every episode. But, I don't care enough about it to engage in any kind of discussion. I can't even think of something worth discussing even if I wanted to engage there. It just isn't that interesting to me. But, I sure as hell don't wander into Orville discussions looking to shit all over the writing, production values, etc. Not a valuable use of my time, at least according to my values.
So, I ultimately disagree with
@ITDUDE that "critical discussions are the most fun," at least from my perspective. I actually take very little joy in critical discussion or analysis when discussing television shows. I have enough of that in my day job, thanks. When it comes to entertainment, I want to spend time discussing things I like, not things I don't like. But, it's all about the individual's POV and what fires you up the most. Some people like being critical and find joy in that. Others find joy in not being critical and discussing the things that excited or made them happy, rather than their disappointments.
I think it would be better if people (including myself at times) simply recognized that and discontinued trying to antagonize each other.
But, to be clear,
@ITDUDE I don't come to the board to have my opinions validated. It honestly doesn't make a damn bit of difference to me. There's all kinds of shit I like that I am in the vast minority on. Hasn't changed my opinion or my level of enjoyment one single bit.
Signed,
The Guy Who Likes Star Trek V, TOS Season 3, Star Trek: Nemesis and doesn't hate Jar Jar Binks