It's always been believed by fandom that Spock was the first
There was a poll taken?
Also, are we assuming that there are still labels such as "homewrecker" in the 24th century?
For humans probably yes, depending on the culture, loyalty in committed relationships were expected 300 years ago, so why be any different in the next 300.
Which proves Picard isn't really French lolAs for Picard: Sure, he is in love with Beverly, probably from the moment they met. But she was already with Jack by then. So being the man of honor he is, Picard didn't talk about or act on any of this until long after Jack's death.
Because GR fantasised in the future everyone would be just like him...Because they are more evolved and have love instructors. Just idle speculation on my part, perhaps even a bit reckless.
