I just think the term irredeemable just means something different in real life as opposed to fiction. I'm not sure it's a term that really works in fiction because it's really just about narrative and understanding a character's point of view. I think the only reason why Syd's actions seem's easier to overlook has less to do about the subject matter but more about how that episode was simply a better episode and a better written scene. We understand her point-of-view a little better than David's at this point in time. We know he has a severe mental health issue and he has also been a product of abuse by the Shadow King as well. The reason's for his actions sort of make sense but they didn't fully convey the reason why he felt his actions were okay at that moment. Some of that I think is because the show's weirdness at times does conflict with emotional exploration.
As for people not liking it or being okay with it is not just about listening to people. Of course people should listen, especially when it comes to real life issues. To me this feels more like the age old debate when it comes to drama and comedy and that is the question. Is somethings taboo and you can't explore them or make jokes about something when it comes to humor or drama? It always comes down basically to some people saying that yes you can't do some stories or some jokes. Then others feel everything is fair game. Context means everything. I don't see it as a moral issue but simply having a difference of opinion on the question.
Jason
As for people not liking it or being okay with it is not just about listening to people. Of course people should listen, especially when it comes to real life issues. To me this feels more like the age old debate when it comes to drama and comedy and that is the question. Is somethings taboo and you can't explore them or make jokes about something when it comes to humor or drama? It always comes down basically to some people saying that yes you can't do some stories or some jokes. Then others feel everything is fair game. Context means everything. I don't see it as a moral issue but simply having a difference of opinion on the question.
Jason