I'm sorry, dodge
I'm not.
One can make theories and speculations similar to JacksonArcher's(in fact many have) without invoking a personal tragedy to shore up your point or to prove one's "cred" with insider sources.
Others have politely tried to explain to JacksonArcher why this particular line of argumentation is insensitive and disrespectful, only to have him entrench even deeper and do more of the same.
I have no such patience.