It's not okay in either case, but it's especially not okay when you're twice her weight and muscle mass and have five inches of height and reach on her and you're doing it out of revenge instead of being under direct threat of injury or death.Why is it okay for a woman to beat up a man but not okay for a man to beat up a woman?
How do you know I can't do it? Have you stood on a horse before? How can you know for sure until you've experienced it? It's almost like the ability to judge abstract concepts is one of the defining characteristics of human behavior or something. I sure hope everyone in the Rogue One thread has volunteered to fight for a Rebellion against an evil Galactic Empire with planet-killer weapons, or else they'll really have egg on their face tomorrow when their hypocrisy is exposed for having opinions on something they haven't experienced.
How do you know I can't do it? Have you stood on a horse before? How can you know for sure until you've experienced it? It's almost like the ability to judge abstract concepts is one of the defining characteristics of human behavior or something. I sure hope everyone in the Rogue One thread has volunteered to fight for a Rebellion against an evil Galactic Empire with planet-killer weapons, or else they'll really have egg on their face tomorrow when their hypocrisy is exposed for having opinions on something they haven't experienced.
By the way, where do you get off commenting on Stormtrooper inaccuracy in the SW Forum until you've walked a mile in their boots and seen life through those two little holes in their helmets? Get off your high bantha and stop judging them.
I was enjoying our ethical discussion about fictional characters involved in fictional events until you and whoever that Vger guy is decided to get all personal about it and get insulting for some bizarre reason. I guess we hit a little too close to home on the broken interstellar spaceship astronaut discussion. I can't for the life of me fathom how, but you two got really upset and defensive about it nonetheless.
I guess we just can't know if we'd essentially take someone's life from them and force them to live elsewhere until we've experienced it (murder and kidnapping). I guess we can't know if we'd have sex with them under false pretenses until we've experienced it (rape). I guess we can't know if we'd haunt their every waking moment from then on instead of giving them some personal space (stalking). Yep, no way to know until we're on a spaceship 90 years from home. I guess we might as well shut down all discussion that don't directly pertain to concrete examples we've lived, huh? TREKKER HAS SPOKEN!
I think I heard 3 or 4 months. I'm not sure though.It was never clear to me how much time passed between her finding out and when he started trying to talk to her again and did the PA thing. The movie implies another year passed with the two of them dating so it's possible several weeks could have passed with her ignoring him before he resorted to the PA system to get her attention.
But, again, it's not clear. I didn't get the impression he was constantly hounding her I mean they did at some point come up with "joint custody rules" with the bartender-bot so they must have had some level of communication and and agreement.
It cannot be true if it's based on theory. Unless you've been in a situation where it was either kill yourself or subject someone to a lonely life outside of what they're expecting and you made the choice to kill yourself, then anything you say is based on projection and assumption.
But when you're really there and faced with the emotions and mental instability you can't say. It's like how people are always quick to say "if I were [in dangerous confrontation with criminals] I'd just attack them and try and save the day!" It's easy to "Monday morning quarterback" like that and say things with the benefit of hindsight and not having the emotional rush.
But unless you're really there you cannot say because in that situation emotions, rational thought and everything are running wild and going out the window. People who're suicidal even in "mundane" situations on Earth struggle with the decision to do it or not because killing yourself is fucking hard to do because we all fear the unknown not to mention the discomfort and pain that comes with it. (Particularly in Jim's case where he doesn't seem to have many "painless" options.) Yes, many people do commit suicide but in a majority of cases it's more for a call for attention or help than an act to kill one's self and then there's, yes, those few cases where someone wants to kill themselves and does it in an absolute manner.
But here you are, mentally sound, sitting behind your computer inside a comfortable home with comfortable daily human interactions saying you'd, without question, throw yourself out an airlock rather than use skill and knowledge you have to wake another person up and lie to them about what happened. Right.
I'm not saying Jim makes the "right" call, but I also cannot say it was the "wrong" call, but then I also have the value of hindsight to know that had he not woken Aurora up he'd either have killed himself or been driven further-ly mentally unstable in the following year meaning the ship would have blown up and then everyone would have died.
But I can say he made a human call. Not a humane one but one that's understandably human because in extreme circumstances people do extreme things. And, yes, while he does "steal her life" -or rather the life she was expecting- she still had "a" life and presumably a happy one (though they presumably never had any children (hello vasectomy selection on the medical pod thing!)) and he doesn't manipulate or Stockholm her into falling for him. Sure, she interacts with him and falls for him because she has no other choice but it's not like he tying her up and physically forcing herself into anything, and as said above arranged/forced copulations have existed in our culture longer than they haven't and are still going on; so we're also looking at this with a 21st century, Western, viewpoint. Even some 21st Century Eastern viewpoints would see his "forced" copulation as being something of a societal norm, at least Aurora was given the advantage of freedom and choice as opposed to, "Here's your husband, we're getting some land and 50% share in the business in exchange. Deal. I did when I was your age."
So, no, you cannot say what you would do. I cannot say what I would do because this is out of our experiences and we're not in the emotional mindset Jim would have been in. I'd like to say I'd tough it out and just live out my life alone, but I cannot say with certainty that I wouldn't wake up myself a companion if I had the skill to do so and I cannot say with certainty as someone who has coped with suicidal thoughts that I would or wouldn't kill myself.
It's impossible to know. Being in a situation is different than observing it and then making second guesses after the fact.
Analyze the morality of it all you want, that's what the movie wants you to do. But what you cannot do is stand on your horse and say, "I'd kill myself rather than subject another person to this experience!" because you have no way of knowing that because your morals now in your comfortable life with regular human interaction would be very different in the situation the protagonist is in.
It's not okay in either case, but it's especially not okay when you're twice her weight and muscle mass and have five inches of height and reach on her and you're doing it out of revenge instead of being under direct threat of injury or death.
Thanks for re-quoting what I already said.It's not okay period to beat up someone regardless of the perpetrator or victim's gender.
Thank you. The Avalon is one of the best ships in scifi IMO. It is such a beautiful design.Sorry to interrupt your bickering but for any starship fans here like me, here is the Passenger's Avalon from concept to finished ship:
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Carry on.
Thank you. The Avalon is one of the best ships in scifi IMO. It is such a beautiful design.
I also loved how we saw the diversion of power to strengthen the deflector shields.Thank you. The Avalon is one of the best ships in scifi IMO. It is such a beautiful design.
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