Avoid guessing, you seem to be terrible at it. Also, just a pet peeve, but if you're going to get all up in my grill, at least learn the right terminology first, "transgender" is not a gender, it's a transition between 2 genders. The genders involved there are male & female. I love people so eager to start a little drama that they mix up gender, sexuality, and transitions & just sort of use them all interchangeably. This is a good example of doing social justice while not really even knowing what you're talking about, speak of the devil. Fortunately I've learned to laugh this sort of crap off, even make jokes about it. Although even that coping mechanism is getting scolded at these days, if you're not super serious & upset about your problems all the time and try to joke about it a little, it means you don't care enough. It's a real downer. Makes for poor TV too.
So with that in mind, allow me to announce (in the approved super serious fashion) that I love transgenders. I love them in a super platonic manner. So don't give me shit, mayonnaise-xir.