Perhaps you missed the sarcasm implied by
@The Wormhole's post.
Or, perhaps, this thread was just Godwined.
Interesting to note that GR did not think that The Wrath of Khan fell in to his vision either. He felt it was too militarized, that Khan was a poor caricature of himself and the film was all about action. He and Meyer, the director, disagreed on a number of points.
Gene's "vision" (whatever that may be-it changed a lot) is about humanity bettering itself, at least in the latest edition. What does Kirk do but go from a selfish and cocky know-it-all to a humbled and more wise individual who has the potential to grow. Abrams' films, in my opinion, are all about characters growing and reaching their potential. It doesn't get more GR vision than that.
Also, why should anyone be ashamed?