Do some research on the movie's production and all your illusions and rationalisations will be taken away.
I don't want my illusions taken away - I need my illusions!
Seriously though, why would I purposefully seek to destroy good will I hold for something meant as entertainment?
Person 1: Something you like isn't worthy of your appreciation because X,Y,X.
Person 2: Okay, you are right. I now hate that. Thank you for setting me straight.

Actually, I don't think we've ever saw the refit in battle without first getting beat up, except maybe towards the end of The Undiscovered Country?
Correct. Only other action seen by the E-A occurred at the end of STV, Chekov moves the ship out of Klingon torpedo path just in the nick of time.